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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
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No
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Yes
deletedover 8 years
sure
over 8 years
Wanna hear it?
over 8 years
speaking of which, I know a REALLY good word to use on people that will get their goat
over 8 years
you're a hard effing worker, after all. I knew I was in for a hard effing
over 8 years
but I knew you'd win before you even picked the game.....
deletedover 8 years
hubris was your downfall
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says


Impoetic says

what sort would you like to pwn me at





I haven't watched Seinfield yet. You win :c
over 8 years
Yes, everyone is naturally inclined to be biased in millions of ways both subliminally and consciously. The best you can do is be aware that this is an overall negative thing and try to keep it in mind, imo. Like, if I find myself looking at a hot girl and expecting her to be a total idiot, I will gently knock myself over the side of the head and say, "Don't be like epicmafia user gira!"
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Impoetic says

what sort would you like to pwn me at


deletedover 8 years
man he modded vancyon, I hate this website.
over 8 years

Bumpers says

On a slightly more serious note, everyone is bigoted in some way. Don't read too much into it, just realize the errors of your ways.


OH MY GOD SOMEONE JUST SAID SOMETHING I AGREE WITH HERE :'D
over 8 years
what sort would you like to pwn me at
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says

i don't really care anymore about people being banned for it. it's pretty dumb but that isn't what this thread is about. epicmafia user Bae is trying to tell a bunch of probably not so bad people that they're bigoted monsters which can probably mess with a young person's head


I understand, we need to make sure the 8 year olds on EM don't see improper language.

On a slightly more serious note, everyone is bigoted in some way. Don't read too much into it, just realize the errors of your ways.
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says



I'm fairly certain I'm more intelligent (by the classical definition) than anyone who has ever called me an "autist" (or a "") on epicmafia dot com


wuould u like to commence a battle of wits?


you never called me a redacted but sure
over 8 years
i will calmly and egotistically assert that I am more intelligent than the people who have called me a [redacted] on epicmafia.com thus far, because epicmafia brings out the narcissist in me or something.
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I'm fairly certain I'm more intelligent (by the classical definition) than anyone who has ever called me an "autist" (or a "") on epicmafia dot com


wuould u like to commence a battle of wits?
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impoetic is a sweetheart
over 8 years
or a [redacted]
over 8 years

Bumpers says


Impoetic says

Autism, on the other hand, is a social disability and often a side effect of excessive intelligence


lol  


isn't it? High-functioning autism can at least be categorized as this, surely. My mom had an uncle who was severely autistic and also an amazing surgeon. I myself allegedly have "mild autism" but I'm fairly certain I'm more intelligent (by the classical definition) than anyone who has ever called me an "autist" (or a "") on epicmafia dot com

am I wrong about something? I'm horribly unlikely to ever do research before making statements like that
deletedover 8 years
i don't really care anymore about people being banned for it. it's pretty dumb but that isn't what this thread is about. epicmafia user Bae is trying to tell a bunch of probably not so bad people that they're bigoted monsters which can probably mess with a young person's head
over 8 years
"i am such a yo-yo" o.o
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says


Trouble says

Fighting for the ability to call someone derogatory slurs insulting a mental condition, you guys voting 'Yes' are the true heroes of your generation..


i for one won't be morally satisfied until communication in the world is only legal through preset messages like those in runescape's quickchat


I want to upvote this bc it's hilarious but I'm not sure I agree with your insistence that we need to be technically allowed to use the word . Like can everyone just accept that if you're gonna use it you'll be reported sometimes and also that people aren't likely to stop using it anytime soon and move on with life? Is it really such a horrible example of epicmafia corruption and why do people care so much if epicmafia is "corrupt"??

idgi...
over 8 years

Impoetic says

Autism, on the other hand, is a social disability and often a side effect of excessive intelligence


lol  
deletedover 8 years
i thought i was quoting tatami
over 8 years

Impoetic says

Autism, on the other hand, is a social disability and often a side effect of excessive intelligence. Autistic savants, etc., etc.


no