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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years

Impoetic says


Bumpers says

Damn these comments, my first trophy on this site was almost 8 years ago, how can I go back to those happier times?


who even are you


nikoscook, formerly user 465, part of EM's testing phase, first moderator, first assigned admin, probably the last remnant from those times who still visits the site.
over 8 years
...maybe they were just gaseous. or maybe I'm just hallucinating.
over 8 years
oh i assumed it was because i thought i saw someone bypassing
over 8 years
You're cool. Seriously, who are you?
over 8 years

Bumpers says

Damn these comments, my first trophy on this site was almost 8 years ago, how can I go back to those happier times?


who even are you
over 8 years
why can't epicmafia count @sonrio's comment
deletedover 8 years
sorry sonrio, had to be done
over 8 years

Sonrio says

Pink and orange starbursts are the only ones ill eat


same, because I'm leaving all the red ones for mist!! =]
over 8 years
Damn these comments, my first trophy on this site was almost 8 years ago, how can I go back to those happier times?
over 8 years
and also actually converting people from straight to gay would be atrocious because of all the homophobic gay people
over 8 years
Pink and orange starbursts are the only ones ill eat
over 8 years

Bumpers says


hardeffingworker says

i was a nice guy the first time i won


Pixels change people.


pixels are the ONLY ethical conversion therapy known to man except they aren't ethical at all becuase they also make people into a.ssholes and why the f.uck is a.ssholes censored like jesus f.ucking
deletedover 8 years

mist says


Impoetic says

I always thought people who were cool on the internet did not have lives irl but noooo, MIST had to go and debunk that pleasant theory


my life outside the internet consists of going to work and occasionally getting intoxicated with my 1 not-work friend.


well, that and eating starbursts.
over 8 years

Bumpers says


roadman says


Bumpers says


roadman says


Calvin says

i stopped paying for FFXIV after i got BDO


FFXIV was bad on both releases.


How much of 2.0 did you play?


Just the first month around launch.

Really wasn't impressed with the direction they were taking things with regard to mechanics. I played a lot of FFXI, and I just found myself let down.


Oh ok, I can understand then if you used to play XI. I'd love to get back to playing the rest of XI however it's pretty hard justifying the monthly cost that is still the same.


With a game like XI, you kinda need to be there for the start of every expansion, or you're just way too far behind and unable to make up for missed content. It mainly fell apart for that reason, as it was too hard to get new players interested whilst the established players eventually dropped off one-by-one. FFXIV just felt like it was a typical SquareEnix abomination. Too much focus gameplay sacrifice for aesthetic value. Very linear and arcade-like.
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Impoetic says

I always thought people who were cool on the internet did not have lives irl but noooo, MIST had to go and debunk that pleasant theory


my life outside the internet consists of going to work and occasionally getting intoxicated with my 1 not-work friend.
deletedover 8 years

Lux says


SimplyPam says


mist says

hey guys my 7 pound bag of starbursts arrived!!!




the pink/yellow ones are the best


u have bad judgement.


the red ones suck
over 8 years
yellow is a redacted color unless it's an actual banana
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says

i was a nice guy the first time i won


Pixels change people.
over 8 years

SimplyPam says


mist says

hey guys my 7 pound bag of starbursts arrived!!!




the pink/yellow ones are the best


u have bad judgement.
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says


Impoetic says

I think someone should try and win a round of comp without insulting anyone in-game. it would be a cute challenge to watch, esp. if it were someone like hardeffing or calvin or pranay or giga13 or shrub or Bae or pranay[actualnumberthatispranay'susername] or abc or hedger or mist or Stiffy or trolleyz or me


i was a nice guy the first time i won


if it happened before I was 10, it doesn't count.
over 8 years
I always thought people who were cool on the internet did not have lives irl but noooo, MIST had to go and debunk that pleasant theory
deletedover 8 years

Impoetic says

I think someone should try and win a round of comp without insulting anyone in-game. it would be a cute challenge to watch, esp. if it were someone like hardeffing or calvin or pranay or giga13 or shrub or Bae or pranay[actualnumberthatispranay'susername] or abc or hedger or mist or Stiffy or trolleyz or me


i was a nice guy the first time i won
over 8 years

Cody says

pink strawberry starbursts 4 life


oops now i know which mods id like to see demodded first
over 8 years

mist says


Impoetic says

is there a starbursts meme i didn't know about ?


n-no i just really like starbursts =(


Disillusionment
deletedover 8 years
mike and ikes are the best candy fwiw