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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

deletedover 8 years

"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says


Trouble says

Fighting for the ability to call someone derogatory slurs insulting a mental condition, you guys voting 'Yes' are the true heroes of your generation..


i for one won't be morally satisfied until communication in the world is only legal through preset messages like those in runescape's quickchat


{Full-Thrust}{Me}{Rear}{Please}
over 8 years
than they. w/e. I'm fluent
deletedover 8 years

Trouble says

Fighting for the ability to call someone derogatory slurs insulting a mental condition, you guys voting 'Yes' are the true heroes of your generation..


i for one won't be morally satisfied until communication in the world is only legal through preset messages like those in runescape's quickchat
over 8 years
Autism, on the other hand, is a social disability and often a side effect of excessive intelligence. Autistic savants, etc., etc.

Like, call someone socially inept while you're playing on EPICMAFIA, will ya? And make sure to show how much MORE EDUCATED AND INTELLIGENT you are than them by using "autist" to mean "idiot"
over 8 years
Bonehead is actually funny and original. I think I'll keep that. Like, I think I've ever heard it before, but...... lol

And I was gonna leave this up to interpretation, but just now I was referring to actual "redacted" and not [redacted]. ;)
over 8 years

LetUsBeKawaii says

When someone uses a word like "redacted", the speaker isn't specifically targeting those who are mentally challenged.

In the context of EpicMafia, "redacted" is just used as a snappy catch-all insult like "bonehead" or "moron". Only that it's slightly less PG.


Thanks you answered your own question.
over 8 years
vacuous isn't in the list. You may change that word for "dense" and note that I was aware I was using synonyms repeatedly in the same sentence with reference to teh same thing but i forgot waht that's called or if it has a name. i'm such a BONEHEAD
deletedover 8 years
When someone uses a word like "redacted", the speaker isn't specifically targeting those who are mentally challenged.

In the context of EpicMafia, "redacted" is just used as a snappy catch-all insult like "bonehead" or "moron". Only that it's slightly less PG.
over 8 years
shut up homo
over 8 years

LetUsBeKawaii says

I don't get why it's acceptable to use insults like "moron" but not "redacted".


I was born moronic.
deletedover 8 years
I don't get why it's acceptable to use insults like "moron" but not "redacted".

They're both just essentially words that are used in a derogatory manner, but I've never seen someone being reported because the user was butthurt they was called a moron.

Calling someone a "redacted" is much more satisfying than calling one a "bonehead". Using more politically correct terms do not have the same appeal and aren't as snappy.

Words are words. If you're going to be that offended by what a stranger calls you on the internet you probably shouldn't be on EpicMafia. The word "redacted" certainly should NOT be censored.
over 8 years
Gira, you must be somewhat obtuse if you were aware that Koby Bryant was a rapist when Bumpers made the analogy and still able to sincerely make such a vacuous post without realizing that was the point of Bumpers' foul comparison........ just kidding.
over 8 years

Gira says


Bumpers says

I'm like the Kobe Bryant of EM except I'm not dead yet.


also you didnt sexually assault anyone


I missed this fabulous post
over 8 years

Impoetic says

Bumper will like me less when they learn that I did not know who Kobe Bryant was until i read the associated post


Lol, that's rage-inducing.
over 8 years
It's just so skeevy to think that no one will EVER use the term "rage-inducing" because it takes 0 intellect to see why that's pathetic.
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says

if you want to "promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities" then do that. acting like individual words are fully representative of those values isn't gonna change anything. this sort of argument is only ever gonna be divisive because you're promoting the idea that people who say The R Word are inherently intolerant


buddy this is EM, acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities is pretty much a given
over 8 years

Calvin says

little empire was never the same again


dam
over 8 years
I want to hear someone say I'm being "rage-inducing." Please, someone, use "rage-inducing."
over 8 years
"For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

I REALLY prefer "redacted." It's the snappiest new catch-all insult you could have created.

Using literary or archaic terms isn't always the best way to get a sharp point through a thick wall. I would know, as an expert knife enthusiast slash pointer at things or some other impressive profession/hobby,
over 8 years
I kind of thought bae was being ironic and that was a copypasta
over 8 years
I also didn't read the entire post. sorry\\ ;n; i feel bad and will do that now
over 8 years
I don't know why I tl;dr'd about that but I really don't understand why redacted is such an important thing to people here one way or the other because I've never heard of anyone hearing of anyone actually diagnosed with mental retardation who went on epicmafia and took offense to that phenomenon that is totally ingrained in the community anyway for whatever reason.
over 8 years
Bumper will like me less when they learn that I did not know who Kobe Bryant was until i read the associated post
over 8 years
Fighting for the ability to call someone derogatory slurs insulting a mental condition, you guys voting 'Yes' are the true heroes of your generation..
over 8 years
if anyone who is mentally ever has or does in the future complain about the use of "redacted" to mean stupid I will personally finish becoming a l33t computer h4xx0r and completely revamp my ethics code to become the unlawful kind and take down epicmafia permanently.

as it stands, I don't think a lot of mentally redacted people that also happen to be thin-skinned and/or actually have PTSD because of horrible ableist scumbags so the point seems moot to me.

That's not to say the epicmafia userbase is intelligent or that using redacted and "autist" as insults is good in general. I'm just saying that I don't have anything to say....

except that autist is the stupidest insult ever. can we talk about that instead?