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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

deletedover 8 years

"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years
How about we just let all insults through, beacuse you know. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.

If words hurt you, you are a soft baby and don't need to breed anymore, so I'll insult you until your suicidal and kill yourself off. I'm here for the better advancement of the human race, survival of the fittest.
over 8 years
yall probably failed your vocab tests in 10th grade
deletedover 8 years
great thread with a great purpose!
deletedover 8 years

Bae says

Wouldn't it be better to "support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities" and find an alternative word? There are plenty at your disposal.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VAnRV2fWHiU
over 8 years

Bae says

Wouldn't it be better to "support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities" and find an alternative word? There are plenty at your disposal.


Wouldnt it be better to "support the elimination of insults" at all insted of trying to cherrypick a few words and then suggest a synonyme to it insted
deletedover 8 years
It would be a lot better to stop trying to use a ruby mafia site to conduct weird experiments in social linguistics and to actually go outside and do things that have real meaningful impact on the world.
deletedover 8 years
Wouldn't it be better to "support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities" and find an alternative word? There are plenty at your disposal.
over 8 years
This is so REDACTED, insted of advocating to not insult at all, you idiots think its a better idea to try and replace a single word with another one, even though you mean exactly the same thing.
over 8 years
- less advanced in mental, physical, or social development than is usual for one's age
I will call people if they act . It's a word, I'm not outright saying >you're missing a chromosone and should feel ashamed of yourself. I'm stating that you aren't exactly too bright up stairs.
deletedover 8 years
Advocate for the alternatives like egg or potato.
deletedover 8 years

Kylo says

Instead of using the r word, try calling someone the vacuous inbred bas.tard offspring of Sarah Palin and Chunk from The Goonies.


Wasn't clear on whether or not synonyms were acceptable but now I am, thank you Kylo.
deletedover 8 years
Instead of using the r word, try calling someone the vacuous inbred bas.tard offspring of Sarah Palin and Chunk from The Goonies.