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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
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No
40
Yes
over 8 years
do you think they'd mind if we started calling things modtarded
over 8 years
i hate the mods
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Devante says

seriously, i asked three days ago and got no answer.. so here we go again:

why do so many people above the age of 20 care who administrates epicmafia.com for free so much lol


all hypocrites
over 8 years

Arcbell says


Ryuko says

being intellectually disabled doesn't mean you're dumb. it just means it's harder to be smart, usually


No one always produces the same quality of thought or idea in terms of how "smart" it is.

Dumb people can be smart, smart people can be dumb.

If you're mentally disabled, you probably are dumb most of the time.

Therefore I associate dumb things with U


(insert 50 reaction gifs)
over 8 years
seriously, i asked three days ago and got no answer.. so here we go again:

why do so many people above the age of 20 care who administrates epicmafia.com for free so much lol
over 8 years
I don't even want to know what went on during the *nightly group Skype calls.
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Togepi says

Good God that image is actually giving me a headache from me rolling my eyes so much.


best comment ever
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my girl nat bringin the fire 2nite
over 8 years
oh god, way too many people have been mod at one point
over 8 years
zoned in
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hima was in both of them so
over 8 years

The says


Ryuko says

i'm honestly fine, it was really liberating getting to finally complain about all the crap that was happening in the mod chat without the risk of getting admin abuse forum suspended. i'm not exactly unhappy with life because of it


You mean mod chat finally became something other than a hyper-sexual mash of kink discussions and flirting that seemed to be fueled by unquenchable teenage hormones?


hey thats also what it was when i was there and im pretty sure we were with two completely different groups
over 8 years

The says


Ryuko says

i'm honestly fine, it was really liberating getting to finally complain about all the crap that was happening in the mod chat without the risk of getting admin abuse forum suspended. i'm not exactly unhappy with life because of it


You mean mod chat finally became something other than a hyper-sexual mash of kink discussions and flirting that seemed to be fueled by unquenchable teenage hormones?


L M A O
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what's up "The" my dude
over 8 years

moon says


Ryuko says


Jimbei says

is it over? who won?


did anyone else dump a mudslinging info-graphic? clearly me





It was vilden on my account.
over 8 years

Ryuko says

i'm honestly fine, it was really liberating getting to finally complain about all the crap that was happening in the mod chat without the risk of getting admin abuse forum suspended. i'm not exactly unhappy with life because of it


You mean mod chat finally became something other than a hyper-sexual mash of kink discussions and flirting that seemed to be fueled by unquenchable teenage hormones?
over 8 years
now that there's no topic anymore i'd just like to take this opportunity to endorse harrold

i used to be like all of you and thought this guy sucks. now i just think he's a weirdo but he's ok, which is pretty much the standard for mod/admin
over 8 years

Ryuko says


Jimbei says

is it over? who won?


did anyone else dump a mudslinging info-graphic? clearly me


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Ryuko says

anyway pce out yall lol


Good go sleep.
over 8 years

roadman says


Jimbei says

is it over? who won?


The reader.


if that's your first place prize i'd hate to come in second
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pereking says

we all lost

over 8 years

Jimbei says

is it over? who won?


The reader.
over 8 years
im a bernie sanders supporter and if hitler was successful my favorite politician wouldnt be here so please dont use the word hitler
over 8 years
we all lost