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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
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No
40
Yes
over 8 years

Jimbei says

is it over? who won?


did anyone else dump a mudslinging info-graphic? clearly me
over 8 years
no one
deletedover 8 years
is it over? who won?
deletedover 8 years
why do u keep saying hitler dude
deletedover 8 years

Ryuko says

anyway pce out yall lol


hitler
over 8 years
anyway pce out yall lol
deletedover 8 years

mist says


Giga13 says

i don't mod for the circlejerk, i'm like minor friends with like one person on the team lol


then i feel kinda sorry for u


rly do lol
over 8 years
i'm honestly fine, it was really liberating getting to finally complain about all the crap that was happening in the mod chat without the risk of getting admin abuse forum suspended. i'm not exactly unhappy with life because of it
over 8 years
Connor - if you ever need to talk PM me or readd me on skype. I'm out, losers. x
over 8 years

cub says


Ryuko says

what do you suggest the middle ground is?


i used to really hate republicans and thought man, those old white dudes are so behind the times and we'd just be better off without them. how do young people even still become republicans with that disconnect jeez louise

then i took a good hard look at democrats and thought man, these guys have some good ideas but they can go a little bit way too far with them. then i had a stunning revelation: that's why we don't have one political party

sorry for my narrow united states minded view of the benefits of people not all thinking the same thing


I used to hate the right wing until I came to EpicMafia. I didn't realise the lefties could be so unreasonable. I still don't like the right wing, I just don't hate them anymore.
over 8 years

Ryuko says

let's not pretend that anyone mods for any reason than the circlejerk lol


yeah if you aren't modding with people you like and can be friendly with it's not enjoyable during the stressful times. plus doing reports isn't rewarding at all
deletedover 8 years
This has been a (slightly) riveting conversation, good fellows, but it is time for me to sleep.

Goodnight, all.
over 8 years

roadman says


Ryuko says

what do you suggest the middle ground is?


Your middle ground was going to Lucid apparently.



moon says


Ryuko says


moon says


Ryuko says

especially when they threaten and essentially destroy one of your favourite social circles just by being present


if you're viewing mod chat as a social circle you're entitled to you're looking at modding completely wrong


i didn't say i was entitled to it. i just said i wanted to keep it


I think you entirely could've. being a mod means compromising with the admin and even if you disagree, still respecting their decision. the only way you couldn't have is staying as hard headed as you have been


of course i went to lucid. he didn't deserve the position by nature of being a massive jerk with an agenda who only serves to harm the site in his position. i'm not going to meet a "middle ground" to make that work. i'm either going to resist it or gtfo
over 8 years

Ryuko says

what do you suggest the middle ground is?


i used to really hate republicans and thought man, those old white dudes are so behind the times and we'd just be better off without them. how do young people even still become republicans with that disconnect jeez louise

then i took a good hard look at democrats and thought man, these guys have some good ideas but they can go a little bit way too far with them. then i had a stunning revelation: that's why we don't have one political party

sorry for my narrow united states minded view of the benefits of people not all thinking the same thing
deletedover 8 years

Giga13 says

i don't mod for the circlejerk, i'm like minor friends with like one person on the team lol


then i feel kinda sorry for u
deletedover 8 years
you can be good at circlejerking and modding but you cant be good at just one...
over 8 years

Ryuko says


moon says


Ryuko says

especially when they threaten and essentially destroy one of your favourite social circles just by being present


if you're viewing mod chat as a social circle you're entitled to you're looking at modding completely wrong


i didn't say i was entitled to it. i just said i wanted to keep it


I think you entirely could've. being a mod means compromising with the admin and even if you disagree, still respecting their decision. the only way you couldn't have is staying as hard headed as you have been
deletedover 8 years
I remember when I was a mod I was in the minority a lot of the time, but I stepped up and I passionately argued why I thought I was right. Sometimes I lost, but sometimes I won too. The whole point is making your opinion be heard, because if you leave, no one is there to say your opinion for you.
over 8 years
i don't mod for the circlejerk, i'm like minor friends with like one person on the team lol
over 8 years

rutab says


Ryuko says

let's not pretend that anyone mods for any reason than the circlejerk lol


But you know it's a reallllly big circle jerk when you can't handle one new person that doesn't agree with you


Let's not downplay the person being an admin.
deletedover 8 years

Ryuko says

let's not pretend that anyone mods for any reason than the circlejerk lol


But you know it's a reallllly big circle jerk when you can't handle one new person that doesn't agree with you
deletedover 8 years

Ryuko says

let's not pretend that anyone mods for any reason than the circlejerk lol


you're actually right about this lol
deletedover 8 years

Ryuko says

let's not pretend that anyone mods for any reason than the circlejerk lol


that's just part of the reason, i believe some people actually do want to help the site
over 8 years

Ryuko says

what do you suggest the middle ground is?


Your middle ground was going to Lucid apparently.
over 8 years
Poor Connor.