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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

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Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
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No
40
Yes
over 8 years

mist says


Edark says

This is so REDACTED, insted of advocating to not insult at all, you idiots think its a better idea to try and replace a single word with another one, even though you mean exactly the same thing.


they don't mean the exact same thing, that's the point lol


The word in itself doesnt hold the same textbook exact meaning, but the intention doesnt change at all whether or not I call someone an idiot or a r-word.

Daily reminder that language is fluid and changes with time, just as idiot changed meaning from being a derogatery term against mentally handicapped to just someone being stupid, so will these words(and somewhat have already). Trying to force stagnation in words and bringing up why you shouldnt use the cherrypicked x/y-word insted of not hating all together is pointless and doesnt change anything.
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over 8 years

Calvin says

edark what is the difference between identifying a black person as black or identifying them as the n word. I'll let you figure that one out


well, if you are trying to offend a black person without calling them a ngger it's probably just as offensive, which is probably edark's point.
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Edark says

This is so REDACTED, insted of advocating to not insult at all, you idiots think its a better idea to try and replace a single word with another one, even though you mean exactly the same thing.


they don't mean the exact same thing, that's the point lol
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I made LadyNemesis cry without a single slur.
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idiot
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In the grand scheme of things i lost money but its the little things that matter
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If we're playing the alt game here i think i won
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I don't think the R word is a huge deal, but I don't understand why you all seem to feel inconvenienced because you can't say it.
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edark what is the difference between identifying a black person as black or identifying them as the n word. I'll let you figure that one out
over 8 years

Edark says

This is so REDACTED, insted of advocating to not insult at all, you idiots think its a better idea to try and replace a single word with another one, even though you mean exactly the same thing.

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My heart is stone and still it trembles
over 8 years
Stop making black people look bad.
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bruh shut up
over 8 years
IT'S CUZ IM BLACK
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Ichizon stop spamming the thread.
over 8 years
THIS IS RACISM
over 8 years
LET MY VOICE BE HEARD
over 8 years

Ichizon says

How about we just let all insults through, beacuse you know. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.

If words hurt you, you are a soft baby and don't need to breed anymore, so I'll insult you until your suicidal and kill yourself off. I'm here for the better advancement of the human race, survival of the fittest.

over 8 years
THIS IS OPPRESSION ON THE HIGHEST ORDER.
over 8 years
I SAID NOTHING OFFENSIVE THAT IS MY OPINION
over 8 years
Ichizon reminds me of this one guy at my school that doesnt talk to anyone because hes better than everyone at CSGO
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Ichizon you are and always have been the worst
over 8 years
HEY STOP DOWNVOTING MY POST.