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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

deletedover 8 years

"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years

jack says


Devante says


mist says

sorry i was kind of under the assumption people here who say [redacted] don't actually harbor hatred for mentally handicapped people but ok


most people who say rtarded don't either.


ftfy


thanks fam
over 8 years
isnt it already against the HC rule
over 8 years

Devante says


mist says

sorry i was kind of under the assumption people here who say [redacted] don't actually harbor hatred for mentally handicapped people but ok


most people who say rtarded don't either.


ftfy
deletedover 8 years
edark, my friend, you're fighting a strawman. please get out of the corn field.
over 8 years
edark if you wanna start a movement for everyone to be nice ill be the first to sign
over 8 years
well edark to put it simply there will always be people calling each other stupid but at least it's better if they don't use the r-word
over 8 years

mist says


Edark says


mist says

i don't think anyone is saying you should be allowed to say offensive stuff as long as you don't use slurs. that's like, completely and totally not the point.


You clearly havent read it then, they are NOT advocating to remove the hate, they just advocate to remove a certain cherrypicked word from your vocabulary.


so, uh, you're saying you are hateful?


no, Im saying the OP is pointless and idiotic
over 8 years
The R-word.
deletedover 8 years
sorry i was kind of under the assumption people here who say [redacted] don't actually harbor hatred for mentally handicapped people but ok
deletedover 8 years
Let's present a list of words/phrases from other languages that mean the exact same thing as the forbidden word.
over 8 years
"Hey its allright to insult people, we get that! So here is a list of 255 insluts you can use insted of this word. Meaning and intention behind the word doesnt matter, even though language is a liquid form of expression that changes over time"
over 8 years

Devante says


jack says

is op using redacted to replace the r-word or is op also saying we don't say the word 'redacted'


redacted as a replacement for rtarded


ok thats what i thought
deletedover 8 years

Edark says


mist says

i don't think anyone is saying you should be allowed to say offensive stuff as long as you don't use slurs. that's like, completely and totally not the point.


You clearly havent read it then, they are NOT advocating to remove the hate, they just advocate to remove a certain cherrypicked word from your vocabulary.


so, uh, you're saying you are hateful?
deletedover 8 years
I'm attempting to inform, not advocate.
over 8 years
is op using redacted to replace the r-word or is op also saying we don't say the word 'redacted'
over 8 years

mist says

i don't think anyone is saying you should be allowed to say offensive stuff as long as you don't use slurs. that's like, completely and totally not the point.


You clearly havent read it then, they are NOT advocating to remove the hate, they just advocate to remove a certain cherrypicked word from your vocabulary.
over 8 years
Are you English or French?
over 8 years
im more surprised theres a website called specialchildren
over 8 years

Calvin says

edark what is the difference between identifying a black person as black or identifying them as the n word. I'll let you figure that one out


Idiotic comparision, you need to compare 2 insults(unless you think being called a "black man" is an insult in itself, which in that case rude!)

The more appropiate comparision is "whats the difference of calling a black person a n-word or a monkey, or any other synonyme?"
over 8 years

mist says

i don't think anyone is saying you should be allowed to say offensive stuff as long as you don't use slurs. that's like, completely and totally not the point.


Directly from the OP

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2
over 8 years
in a perfect world we'd all be nice to each other but em is far from perfect
over 8 years

Edark says

Daily reminder that language is fluid and changes with time, just as idiot changed meaning from being a derogatery term against mentally handicapped to just someone being stupid, so will these words(and somewhat have already). Trying to force stagnation in words and bringing up why you shouldnt use the cherrypicked x/y-word insted of not hating all together is pointless and doesnt change anything.


implying you and others haven't been using it as a derogatory term synonymously with autistic since 2011
deletedover 8 years
i don't think anyone is saying you should be allowed to say offensive stuff as long as you don't use slurs. that's like, completely and totally not the point.
deletedover 8 years
this isn't about trying to offend certain groups of ppl tho
over 8 years
Using a slur directly, or using a word which is synonymous with the slur often doesn't matter, as the connotation that the slur carries is implied. At least that's how I see things.