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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
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No
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Yes
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i just think that if you know the word can get you a vio why say it and then cry about it
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He unbanned Ian so he's gonna get a pass though
over 8 years
cheater mods are OK for now
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Kylo says

Oh, that's a shame.


down with cheater admins
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Of my friend, I can only say this: of all the souls I have encountered in my travels, his was the most... human.
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Bumpers says


Retti says

normally i follow bumpers' opinion on most things because he's the boss of this gym


Hey when are you playing FFXIV?


hopefully eventually
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this topic is gay
over 8 years

Retti says

normally i follow bumpers' opinion on most things because he's the boss of this gym


Hey when are you playing FFXIV?
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^^ this is the real scenario and what most people are fighting against
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mist says


Kylo says

I hope roadmin ends cheater mods, but I won't hold my breath.


he'd have to end himself.


Oh, that's a shame.
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that's why hc fails so much, ppl literally are mocking the system and just want the person to get a vio
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i'd fight against the rword more but it's kinda like vegetarianism where it's probably the right thing to do but it's too much effort for me
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khnm was funny, sometimes
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Calvin says

reading KHNM and b0oty's posts circa 2014 was not an easy task

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Kylo says

I hope roadmin ends cheater mods, but I won't hold my breath.


he'd have to end himself.
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normally i follow bumpers' opinion on most things because he's the boss of this gym
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Calvin says

reading KHNM and b0oty's posts circa 2014 was not an easy task


oh god the horrors
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reading KHNM and b0oty's posts circa 2014 was not an easy task
over 8 years

Anael says


Ryuko says


leo says

isnt it already against the HC rule


this isn't about RULES leo, it's about MORALS


The great moral issue of our time, whether or not someone can compose the letters terardde into a form that may be a reference to someone with an IQ under 70.


lol
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I hope roadmin ends cheater mods, but I won't hold my breath.
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Ryuko says


leo says

isnt it already against the HC rule


this isn't about RULES leo, it's about MORALS


The great moral issue of our time, whether or not someone can compose the letters terardde into a form that may be a reference to someone with an IQ under 70.
over 8 years

Anthony says

Oh no, I won't sit here and argue that most of the people who report for HC are offended because that's simply not true. I'm talking about the fact that the word itself can offend more than just the intended target.


Exactly, and my whole argument is exactly that. Policing of cherrypicked words is counterproductive and doesnt solve anything. For example, the extreme failure HC rule and how the old harassment rule worked, were most just could pretend to feel harassed to get the other person slapped with a violation.
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Kylo says


Bumpers says


Kylo says


Bumpers says

I love how Ichizon is one of the weaker trolls EM has had yet the same people constantly fall for what he says. He's funny more than anything.


He's never been a troll or funny, just imho.


Are you an alt of a person that has been around 4-5 years? His recent stuff is far weaker than back then.


I'm sonseray, and I've never thought he was funny or a good troll. When I think "good troll" I think KHNM


Oh hey. I'm never placing him in the category of good, it's more of a guilty pleasure seeing people still fall for it in games and on the forum. He's like ErezSarosi or however his name was spelt but with an anime avatar.
over 8 years

Edark says


Giga13 says

nice to know edark defends calvin for making fun of other people's mental disorders too lmao

"giga isn't selfvoting. how do i make him selfvote? maybe i should make fun of his mental disorder, that will work!"


Im not defending him since 2 wrongs doesnt make 1 right, I just found your comment hypocritical


sure. but i don't say n word in game anymore nor have i for a long time lol
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Bumpers says


Kylo says


Bumpers says

I love how Ichizon is one of the weaker trolls EM has had yet the same people constantly fall for what he says. He's funny more than anything.


He's never been a troll or funny, just imho.


Are you an alt of a person that has been around 4-5 years? His recent stuff is far weaker than back then.


I'm sonseray, and I've never thought he was funny or a good troll. When I think "good troll" I think KHNM