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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years
calvin your vote and posts itt seem to be inconsistent
over 8 years
call someone a toyger. Toygers with the ears that fit the breed standard are pretty much the same thing
deletedover 8 years
you made me watch gayporn without telling me it was gayporn what the hell dude
over 8 years
I dont believe we're teaching people at all i just like to think that way. The best part of modding is giving people vios for stuff they already knew about
over 8 years
never. ever. ever. ever. ever.ever.ever.ever.ever.ever.
over 8 years
Steph Curry has a technical.
over 8 years

Sonrio says

i remember one time someone came up with rett-arded for retti and i thought it was quite rude :(


but puns are never rude
over 8 years

Gira says

quit spergin out, folks!!!!

over 8 years
quit spergin out, folks!!!!
deletedover 8 years

Calvin says


Retti says

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4aOLkiXzcs

Mods = leather man
Community = billy herrington
bag = HC


is that gayporn


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1JRgi3LYUU
over 8 years
Which is the same problem as redacteds. You don't use redacted sincerely because it would be insulting to someone who is actually redacted, if that person were to see and be offended by people calling each other idiots using the term redacted.
over 8 years

Sonrio says

I dont think we're doing this to protect people but more so to teach others to stop using slurs


If you sincerely believe that you're teaching people that then you're delusional.
over 8 years
i remember one time someone came up with rett-arded for retti and i thought it was quite rude :(
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Retti says

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4aOLkiXzcs

Mods = leather man
Community = billy herrington
bag = HC


is that gayporn
over 8 years

antikrist says

Advocate for the alternatives like egg or potato.


those are only for friends and using them on people you actually dislike is totally insulting to eggs and potatoes.
deletedover 8 years

Sonrio says

I dont think we're doing this to protect people but more so to teach others to stop using slurs


Yes, you're really making a difference in the world. After my strict spanking from the Epicmafia.com moderation, I'll know not to slur in the future, on the internet or otherwise.
over 8 years
shut up
over 8 years

Retti says

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4aOLkiXzcs

Mods = leather man
Community = billy herrington
bag = HC



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vtEpRMrgXjU
deletedover 8 years

Sonrio says

I dont think we're doing this to protect people but more so to teach others to stop using slurs


lol
over 8 years
hey everyone! Stop saying slurs
over 8 years
I dont think we're doing this to protect people but more so to teach others to stop using slurs
deletedover 8 years
bless
deletedover 8 years
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4aOLkiXzcs

Mods = leather man
Community = billy herrington
bag = HC
over 8 years

SimplyPam says

that's why hc fails so much, ppl literally are mocking the system and just want the person to get a vio


Get this unpopular opinion:

I think most adults on this website are actually strong enough people that they *gasp* arent actually offended by a slur on epicmafiadotcom.

If anything, the whole stigma that every mentally handicapped person is "weak" and need the help of the valiant moderators to censor every bad word that might hurt them is infantilizing in itself and quite prejudice, but thats just my opinion.
over 8 years
Come play FFXIV now I'm a dragon girl, it's better than reading people wanting to be offended.