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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years
He's compiling code, not a dictionary.
deletedover 8 years
Actually yeah now that I think about it why didn't lucid just enter a bunch of slur words into the filter when it was being made?
over 8 years

Almalexia says

Bae is rude, definitelly the wrost mod.



accurate depiction of Almalexia's typo
#stopsmokingcrack
over 8 years
definitelly wrost
deletedover 8 years
Bae is rude, definitelly the wrost mod.
deletedover 8 years
sorry qesuited but you really are useless : (
over 8 years
Calling me "u**less" is offensive because I am use**ss IRL so I'm offended, don't call me that. I'm also triggered by it. stop oppressing me.
over 8 years

johnreid says

Bae you are a useless, pathetic, bonehead of a mod. Your presence on this site is repulsive.


round of applause for this guy who perused the glossary of friendly hateful modifiers before making his dissenting post instead of invoking centuries of bigotry and discrimination! hurrah!
deletedover 8 years
if i were to post a transcript of the short video in the OP, i would be given a violation because context isnt taken into consideration when dealing with hc, mfw
over 8 years
Bae you are a useless, pathetic, bonehead of a mod. Your presence on this site is repulsive.
deletedover 8 years
does the hide vocab toggle do anything?
deletedover 8 years
one which stars out the words ***** maybe

that would be nice
deletedover 8 years
a filter would make a lot of sense

if a user is going to be punished for using certain words regardless of context, a filter should stop them from saying those words in the first place

maybe make it togglable aswell
over 8 years
How monotonous lives Tumblr-goers must live, to get up-in-arms whenever they hear a friendly jab.
deletedover 8 years
those websites have a filter so you can't anyways, if lucid wants to add a filter you can honestly just abolish the HC rule barring extreme scenarios, which would be a more prompt solution

until then if i or anyone else can still type it, it's most likely going to be used regardless of the context
deletedover 8 years
what other sites do you guys frequent where the use of the word [redacted] is prohibited?
deletedover 8 years
pretty sure epicmafia is the only website where I've encountered people advocating for other people to refrain from using certain words
over 8 years
When I look at the list of people who voted "yes" I can't say I'm surprised. This is a good thread, it's too bad some people just won't listen.
deletedover 8 years
impoetic is a confirmed troll
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rutab says

Hello I'm back I like this thread you're all


Wtf b oobs is censored?
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Devante says

thought I would get my reading on when I saw there were >10 pages of posts I missed, little sis I know 80% of them were Impoetic posts, talk about a let down


impoetic posts are my fav
over 8 years

Sonrio says

I dont think we're doing this to protect people but more so to teach others to stop using slurs


Lmao!
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over 8 years
thought I would get my reading on when I saw there were >10 pages of posts I missed, little sis I know 80% of them were Impoetic posts, talk about a let down
deletedover 8 years
REDACTED thread, honestly.