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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
over 8 years

rutab says

Connor what would you say to a gay person (who you don't know is gay for sure) who is offended by Slowbro, for example, calling them a fa****, when you no vio their HC report

and they're still genuinely offended


tell them that slowbro was gay so it was satire
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Miki says

i'm surprised more people voted for no. what a happy day


but sadly way too many people still voted yes
deletedover 8 years
Connor what would you say to a gay person (who you don't know is gay for sure) who is offended by Slowbro, for example, calling them a fa****, when you no vio their HC report

and they're still genuinely offended
over 8 years
i'm surprised more people voted for no. what a happy day
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yes.
over 8 years

rutab says

this was ur argument the other day


you cant even begin to comprehend my argument, you still think you should ban gay people from the f-slur
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this was ur argument the other day
deletedover 8 years

rutab says


Vancyon says


Ryuko says


Vancyon says

I'm not a fan of the current HC rules (which say a slur is AutoHC) and would kick myself if you got a violation for saying that.


at which point does a hateful word stop being hateful? when its only said once?


i don't know if you saw the context, but there was absolutely no way that that post would warrant an HC violation, and the way the rule is currently written would mean that he'd receive one.


He thinks the word itself is hateful


I'm sure Connor knows that when you are discussing the word itself then you can use it without a hateful context.
over 8 years
who are you to speak for me rutab?
deletedover 8 years

Vancyon says


Ryuko says


Vancyon says

I'm not a fan of the current HC rules (which say a slur is AutoHC) and would kick myself if you got a violation for saying that.


at which point does a hateful word stop being hateful? when its only said once?


i don't know if you saw the context, but there was absolutely no way that that post would warrant an HC violation, and the way the rule is currently written would mean that he'd receive one.


He thinks the word itself is hateful
deletedover 8 years

Ryuko says


Vancyon says

I'm not a fan of the current HC rules (which say a slur is AutoHC) and would kick myself if you got a violation for saying that.


at which point does a hateful word stop being hateful? when its only said once?


i don't know if you saw the context, but there was absolutely no way that that post would warrant an HC violation, and the way the rule is currently written would mean that he'd receive one.
over 8 years

Vancyon says

I'm not a fan of the current HC rules (which say a slur is AutoHC) and would kick myself if you got a violation for saying that.


at which point does a hateful word stop being hateful? when its only said once?
over 8 years

hardeffingworker says


Bae says


leonardo says

rutab i think you're a massive baka if you can't understand the difference between informing and advocating.





there isn't really any actual information in the op, what are you talking about


u baka
deletedover 8 years

Bae says


leonardo says

rutab i think you're a massive baka if you can't understand the difference between informing and advocating.





there isn't really any actual information in the op, what are you talking about
over 8 years

SonicTheHuman says

someone explain why using a substitute is so much better than using the actual word? makes no sense if i call someone mentally challenged if i meant it in the same way as the slur itself


the point is if you're using it to mean "idiot" then its better to say a synonym for idiot instead of it
over 8 years
quit being a female genitalia rick, gosh ur such a man who makes love to his mother
over 8 years
someone explain why using a substitute is so much better than using the actual word? makes no sense if i call someone mentally challenged if i meant it in the same way as the slur itself
over 8 years
oh youre a hero then my bad
deletedover 8 years
I'm not a fan of the current HC rules (which say a slur is AutoHC) and would kick myself if you got a violation for saying that.
over 8 years

error says

22 pages? ok here goes



hitler

deletedover 8 years
dude i didn't say anything hateful
deletedover 8 years

Gira says

lmao vancyon is a pssy baby


Or I just don't want him to get reported??
deletedover 8 years

Bumpers says

Yeah well he also wanted like others someone's virgin snatch.


LOL
deletedover 8 years
22 pages? ok here goes



hitler
over 8 years
Man that post I made is going to seem way out of context for those who weren't here in 09. New mods don't ban me.