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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
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Sonrio says

but...its not acceptable


i accept it
over 8 years
but...its not acceptable
over 8 years

Sonrio says

arcbell =(


Don't hate me for my opinions on acceptable forms of expression!
over 8 years
arcbell =(
over 8 years
This post was edited too fast for Connor to screenshot.
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yee thats not kerry arcfart
over 8 years
Well, personally I'm going to continue using the R word on the site whenever I feel I can get away with it.

Catch Me If You Can Connor
over 8 years
people r dumber than marine mammals
over 8 years

Ryuko says

being intellectually disabled doesn't mean you're dumb. it just means it's harder to be smart, usually


No one always produces the same quality of thought or idea in terms of how "smart" it is.

Dumb people can be smart, smart people can be dumb.

If you're mentally disabled, you probably are dumb most of the time.

Therefore I associate dumb things with U
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vilden says





FTFY
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that's not what i said
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Ryuko says

there's no such thing as dumb people

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being intellectually disabled doesn't mean you're dumb. it just means it's harder to be smart, usually
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If something isn't very smart, why can't I imply that it's the same as someone who isn't very smart?
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Bae says

By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with [intellectual] disabilities.


Yes, that is exactly the point.
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rutab says

what if theyre still offended and dont care


tell slowbro
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Ryuko says


rutab says

Connor what would you say to a gay person (who you don't know is gay for sure) who is offended by Slowbro, for example, calling them a fa****, when you no vio their HC report

and they're still genuinely offended


tell them that slowbro was gay so it was satire


what if theyre still offended and dont care
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Unpopular opinion: sometimes it annoys me when straight people call everything gay but think its okay because they're "all for" gay rights
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Vancyon says


Miki says

i'm surprised more people voted for no. what a happy day


but sadly way too many people still voted yes


i expected it to be a landslide yes victory tbh
over 8 years
go back to 4chan ian
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i'm l b g and also t, please let me use the word
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Ian is a furiously raging homosexual and he shouldn't have been vio'd for using a reclaimed slur
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Vancyon says


Miki says

i'm surprised more people voted for no. what a happy day


but sadly way too many people still voted yes


it's not like anyone's gonna be epiphanized from this stuff
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I'm all for the LGBT community taking back the word. It is hard to moderate, but he's got a point.