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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
66
No
40
Yes
deletedover 8 years
At least Arcbell isn't ashamed of his beliefs even if they're unpopular
over 8 years
The worst part about this thread is OP's vagueness about whether the discussion is in regards to all walks of life or just an EM context.
over 8 years
i am actually lovely nat how are you!!

i have so much work to do that i decided to not do it, and am instead on epicmafia
over 8 years

mist says

possibly sorta reasonable stances to take for why it should be okay to say [redacted]:
-i think the meaning of the word has changed to the point where it should be acceptable to use
-i don't think words should ever be policed
-i think people need to toughen up and not be offended by words

the Arcbell Stance™:
-[redacted]s are dumb so im gonna keep using it to mean dumb.


¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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how are ya matt
over 8 years

roadman says


projectmatt says

man i forgot how fun these threads were


Not hard to forget when they occur at least once a day.


idk man when i lurk i usually don't see threads as enticing and terrible as these
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mist says

possibly sorta reasonable stances to take for why it should be okay to say [redacted]:
-i think the meaning of the word has changed to the point where it should be acceptable to use
-i don't think words should ever be policed
-i think people need to toughen up and not be offended by words

the Arcbell Stance™:
-[redacted]s are dumb so im gonna keep using it to mean dumb.


the best stance
over 8 years

projectmatt says

man i forgot how fun these threads were


Not hard to forget when they occur at least once a day.
over 8 years
man i forgot how fun these threads were
deletedover 8 years
possibly sorta reasonable stances to take for why it should be okay to say [redacted]:
-i think the meaning of the word has changed to the point where it should be acceptable to use
-i don't think words should ever be policed
-i think people need to toughen up and not be offended by words

the Arcbell Stance™:
-[redacted]s are dumb so im gonna keep using it to mean dumb.
over 8 years

Ryuko says

what youre doing right now arcbell is being childish


I think that's ok, though.
over 8 years
same
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hey bearguru that's a really cool icon next to your name
over 8 years
this thread is obtuse and grotesque
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Hate thy moderatour
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Ryuko says

what youre doing right now arcbell is being childish


what youre doing right now ryuko is being childish
over 8 years
Love thy neighbour.
over 8 years
he called me shallow
over 8 years
agree to disagree
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All we need is because, come and party with us
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arcbell there are so many reasonable stances to take on both sides of this and you manage to nail one of the few that is legit just being a freaking putz. that's legit impressive.
over 8 years
what youre doing right now arcbell is being childish
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ahahahahahahahahh oh man dude
over 8 years
unacceptable
over 8 years

Sonrio says

but...its not acceptable


If your opinion of me has significantly changed since learning that I don't agree with this little social movement thingy, then you are a very shallow person.