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Why we shouldn't use the R-word

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"Do not call something you don't like "Redacted". By calling something "Redacted", you are essentially saying an undesirable object or event is the same as someone with intellectual, developmental, or physical disabilities. This invalidates feelings and the identities of people with disabilities and puts them in a position where they are used to describe something that is considered to be flawed, useless, or stupid. It also makes YOU look flawed, useless and stupid by using such an uncool term. There are a ton of great words you can use instead to describe things, people, and situations that anger or annoy you.

For example: If something is a bad idea, you can use words such as dense, useless, obtuse, pathetic, or vapid. Don't forget terms like jackass or bonehead. Or make up snappy new insults. Swearing may be okay, but might make you look less impressive.

If someone or something angers you, use words like contemptible, enraging, evil, infuriating, horrible, irrational, rage-inducing. If someone or something is disgusting, try using nasty, gross, foul, nauseating, skeevy, repellent, repulsive, vomitous or terrible instead."

"The historical context of the word is important to know. People with disabilities have been treated poorly, discriminated against, abused, and neglected in the past and even today. Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future."

"…support the elimination of the derogatory use of the r-word from everyday speech and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities."

Short video: https://youtu.be/T549VoLca_Q

225 other word substitutes: http://specialchildren.about.com/od/disabilityrights/ss/225-Subsitutes-For-The-R-Word.htm#step2

Reading material: http://www.r-word.org/r-word-effects-of-the-word.aspx

Please keep on-topic or your posts will be deleted.

Is the R-Word acceptable to use? (Please do not vote unless you have read the OP/reading material)
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No
40
Yes
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Escurai says


jack says

red starbursts are terrible.


Mods please delete this absolute SLANDER


but.. it's true
over 8 years

jack says

red starbursts are terrible.


Mods please delete this absolute SLANDER
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if you want to "promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities" then do that. acting like individual words are fully representative of those values isn't gonna change anything. this sort of argument is only ever gonna be divisive because you're promoting the idea that people who say The R Word are inherently intolerant
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nobody should ever say the r word, provided that r word is "red starbursts".
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can we please get back to talking about r words
over 8 years
red starbursts are terrible. and nothing interesting peeking
over 8 years
sorry dude. i take it all back, i am bumpers' alt
over 8 years

pereking says

i didn't read the thread did any drama happen


No dude you just upstaged me again as the oldest user who still signs in now and then.
over 8 years
i didn't read the thread did any drama happen
over 8 years

pereking says

nikoscook was actually my alt, i'm pretty sure this "bumpers" guy is abc... mods?


Pere the mods are so new they'll probably fall for that.
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Speaking of which I found saved threads of Ambipom and Goltemis digging up personal information on one another last week, lmao.
over 8 years
nikoscook was actually my alt, i'm pretty sure this "bumpers" guy is abc... mods?
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Bumpers says


Vancyon says

holy wow, Bumpers is an Epicmafia god


It's ok, I don't really sign in that often to warrant being known any more. The forum wipe killed off any history of me.


nikoscook jesus.jpg
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Bumpers says


Vancyon says

holy wow, Bumpers is an Epicmafia god


It's ok, I don't really sign in that often to warrant being known any more. The forum wipe killed off any history of me.


: (
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Vancyon says

holy wow, Bumpers is an Epicmafia god


It's ok, I don't really sign in that often to warrant being known any more. The forum wipe killed off any history of me.
over 8 years

Gira says

that we know of


Give it time, I'm not white.
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Just changing the way you speak and avoiding using the term can make a difference for people with disabilities today and in the future


???
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Impoetic says


Bumpers says

Damn these comments, my first trophy on this site was almost 8 years ago, how can I go back to those happier times?


who even are you


holy wow, Bumpers is an Epicmafia god
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little empire was never the same again
over 8 years
that we know of
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Bumpers says

I'm like the Kobe Bryant of EM except I'm not dead yet.


also you didnt sexually assault anyone
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Hey  
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hey nikoscook
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I'm like the Kobe Bryant of EM except I'm not dead yet.
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Also I like you.