Epicmafia

almost 8 years

Tatami, I don't see how the advice to actually talk to someone when the storm blew over can ever be bad advice.
It can lead to more understanding from both sides.
Recidivism might learn what she needs/ expects/ whatever when she's in those moods. She might learn that even when you're in a bad mood, it's not really ok to just take it out on others.

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Recidivism says

Saika says

well isn't it clear ? she is just not into you

Okay well then why wouldn't she just dump me?

it's possible she's over you but not capable of telling you that i guess but in that case again what tatami said applies, you ask her, and if you're on the verge of breaking up with her you should confront her about it first

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Tatami says

Okay Recidivism real talk this thread is nuclear, the advice/interpretations that aren't trolling are literally godawful. It's time to straight up nuke it.

No thank you it is my diary

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Sometimes when im having a bad day, I message Sway. Shes amazing

Tatami

almost 8 years

Okay Recidivism real talk this thread is nuclear, the advice/interpretations that aren't trolling are literally godawful. It's time to straight up nuke it.

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I'm pretty angry right now but I'm thinking I'm done with her, I guess I'll see how I feel later

LadyNemesis

almost 8 years

If you don't want to make this way of treating each other into a habit, you better talk about it sooner rather than later.

Else this is the way the communication between you to will go on and you're clearly not happy about that.

Just that you're dating or that you might be in love, doesn't mean you have to accept everything.

If you don't talk about it it'll end up in a break up for sure, since it already immensily frustrates you.

Tatami

almost 8 years

Sometimes people just like to vent and air out their frustrations/selfcriticisms, perceiving that they're just being honest with themselves. They don't necessarily want comfort, just support.

People saying like "She's playing games and wants you to go further" like holy you people are the problem, if someone says "No, stop." you should probably stop.

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Recidivism says

Bigpock says

Recidivism says

Bigpock says

I know what u should do Sonsaray

What should I do?

depends, are u fking her ?

Hypothetically, yes.

choke her

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Bigpock says

Recidivism says

Bigpock says

I know what u should do Sonsaray

What should I do?

depends, are u fking her ?

Hypothetically, yes.

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Saika says

well isn't it clear ? she is just not into you

Okay well then why wouldn't she just dump me?

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Recidivism says

Bigpock says

I know what u should do Sonsaray

What should I do?

depends, are u fking her ?

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well isn't it clear ? she is just not into you

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I don't know either way I am hypothetically over her s.hit and not saying anything else to her. I guess I'll see how I feel the next time she hits me up.

LadyNemesis

almost 8 years

elephantasm says

[...] but also if she won't tell you then I think you should tell her you're going to let her be because there's nothing you can do about it. And later, tell her she hurt your feelings. Or tell her she hurt your feelings now. I don't know. Idk people.

THIS! I'd say it later though, saying it now will only add fuel to the fire.

If I read between the lines, Recidivism, it happened before. If I read it correctly it's not the first time she just ignores you and when that happens, she's the one that decides when you guys get in touch again. If I read it well it's not the first time she wants comfort but refuses to tell you what's wrong. And if I read between the lines it's not the first time that she's taking her frustrations out on you. Is that correct?

If so; why would you accept anyone treating you like that?

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Recidivism says

Recidivism says

Okay but hypothetically she is the one who hit me up, not the other way around.

She literally hit me up to say "Hey I'm having a bad day and I'm going to ruin yours now"

What the f.uck?

This doesn't make any f.ucking sense.

and she got mad at you when you asked what was going on?

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itt: sonseray's first girlfriend struggles

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Recidivism says

Tatami says

Hypothetically, just opening a hypothetical, honest line of communication about how you hypothetically feel about things hypothetically solves most hypothetical issues.

That's cute disney advice, but not how the real world works. That is of course the first thing I would try.

are you sure you were persistent enough to make sure she understands how you're feeling about it right now? because I think sometimes you have to say things a few times/with more detail before people get the drift

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Bigpock says

I know what u should do Sonsaray

What should I do?

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I know what u should do Sonsaray

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Recidivism says

Okay but hypothetically she is the one who hit me up, not the other way around.

She literally hit me up to say "Hey I'm having a bad day and I'm going to ruin yours now"

What the f.uck?

This doesn't make any f.ucking sense.

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lmfaooooooooo @ the OP.

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Tatami says

This thread makes me question if you know how the real worlds works.

Well if this hypothetical is normal behavior, then clearly I don't

Tatami

almost 8 years

This thread makes me question if you know how the real worlds works.

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Tatami says

Hypothetically, just opening a hypothetical, honest line of communication about how you hypothetically feel about things hypothetically solves most hypothetical issues.

That's cute disney advice, but not how the real world works. That is of course the first thing I would try.

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