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Understanding Women

deletedalmost 8 years

Hypothetically, if you were texting a girl you love and she was being down on herself, so you try to flatter her and shower her with compliments, and then she responds with "No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"

What, hypothetically, the f.uck just happened?

Arcbell
almost 8 years
And judging by how willing you are to let her go, maybe you were?
Arcbell
almost 8 years
I mean maybe she thought you were lying to her.
Arcbell
almost 8 years
He has the right to do whatever he wants, as does she. I dunno, I suppose I just think something like that is really small. Maybe she said it in a really nasty snarky tone and it was actually a lot worse than the impression you're giving us sonseray but at face value it just sounds like she was overwhelmed, and asking for an apology isn't likely to be well received.
deletedalmost 8 years
I have the right to be angry and want her to apologize.
deletedalmost 8 years

Arcbell says

You probably didn't do anything all that wrong dude. The situation you were in was likely a no-win scenario because she was upset and emotional. When girls are emotional you can be in a no-win scenario and you just have to accept that. It's not like she's going to hold this over your head when she's feeling better that "ooh you said the wrong thing, even though there was really no right thing you could've said".

She'll let it go, so should you.


he has the right to be angry and want her to apologize
AdrenalineMime
almost 8 years
if this was a tatami thread it would 100% be a troll
Arcbell
almost 8 years

Devante says


Arcbell says

Right. Sonseray I like you and respect you and all but if you leave her over that you're a re'tard.


i've left girls for less

some just aint worth it


If they're not worth it that's a different matter. If this is the last straw or something or you were questioning it anyways then by all means up and leave.
Arcbell
almost 8 years
You probably didn't do anything all that wrong dude. The situation you were in was likely a no-win scenario because she was upset and emotional. When girls are emotional you can be in a no-win scenario and you just have to accept that. It's not like she's going to hold this over your head when she's feeling better that "ooh you said the wrong thing, even though there was really no right thing you could've said".

She'll let it go, so should you.
Devante
almost 8 years

Arcbell says

Right. Sonseray I like you and respect you and all but if you leave her over that you're a re'tard.


i've left girls for less

some just aint worth it
deletedalmost 8 years

Arcbell says


Recidivism says

Well it's f.ucking b.ullshit, now my day is ruined. Maybe she does want another guy, for all I know. Being single is way less stressful.


If your day is ruined because of that, you're being more emotional and irrational than she is. Just saying.


Well, it is. Now I'll be wondering what I did wrong all day long.
Tatami
almost 8 years
imo listen to the dude who actually has a successful relationship over bigpock and other e-casanovas
deletedalmost 8 years
i mean it's hurtful and she shouldn't do that but at some point you should tell HER how you feel or she can't do anything about it

if it's not worth THAT to you then yeah break up with her do it
Arcbell
almost 8 years

Recidivism says

Well it's f.ucking b.ullshit, now my day is ruined. Maybe she does want another guy, for all I know. Being single is way less stressful.


If your day is ruined because of that, you're being more emotional and irrational than she is. Just saying.
deletedalmost 8 years
Yeah bro, u gotta chill. Let her cool down and then go hate fk that sht
oksus
almost 8 years
You need to not take $hit personally.
She's down? Make her enjoy herself, say something funny to brighten the mood
deletedalmost 8 years
Well it's f.ucking b.ullshit, now my day is ruined. Maybe she does want another guy, for all I know. Being single is way less stressful.
deletedalmost 8 years
I'll make u feel better talltree

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mkBS4zUjJZo
Arcbell
almost 8 years
Right. Sonseray I like you and respect you and all but if you leave her over that you're a re'tard.
deletedalmost 8 years

Dyl says

She wants another guy


Don't be this person.
deletedalmost 8 years

Arcbell says

So wait, she got emotional, got down on herself. You complimented, she told you to stop. Anything further?


No that's all of it now I'm just really angry with her and talking about how angry I am on the internet
deletedalmost 8 years
She wants another guy
Arcbell
almost 8 years
So wait, she got emotional, got down on herself. You complimented, she told you to stop. Anything further?
deletedalmost 8 years

Arcbell says

What did she do Sons? Hypothetically.


She snapped at me for trying to be there for after being the one to hit me up in the first place.

She basically went "Hey I'm having a bad day and I won't tell you why, but I'm going to ruin your day too"
Devante
almost 8 years

xxerox says

Hypothetically, she doesn't like when people are nice to her, because she has the self image that people should always be harsh with her and make her cry, so any person that is flattering her is doing something wrong. Because she thinks she doesnt deserve it.

So she will keep degrading herself more and more.


this is really true, ive learned this from personal experience
Tatami
almost 8 years
it doesn't matter what she did arcbell she's part of the tainting third dimension

he needs to free himself while he can