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Understanding Women

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Hypothetically, if you were texting a girl you love and she was being down on herself, so you try to flatter her and shower her with compliments, and then she responds with "No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"

What, hypothetically, the f.uck just happened?

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yoyo200900 says

wow mist you're actually really condescending and horrible



yoyo200900 says

mist is probably just upset because you said "women". you should have said "people that are closer to female than male on the gender spectrum"


what forrest said but also: you're being an idiot. It's hilarious you can DREAM of calling MIST of all people "condescending and horrible" in the same note as you totally UNABASHEDLY scorn people who have views conflicting with yours that you probably haven't even bothered to LOOK INTO ANYWAY and have no right to talk about, especially since they aren't even hurting anyone, and mist doesn't get mad at people not hurting anyone. They're probably just upset that this thread is full of really self-righteously idiotic advice but that's to be expected. Hell I'm sure I contributed to the idiocy sometimes too.

But if you can't see where mist is coming from that's honestly funny, almost as much so as you being able to say that in full consciousness, unironically, and feel justified in doing so.

When I say I find this funny I'm not just being passive-aggressive, I actually genuinely had a chuckle over those posts and simultaneously find them funny and annoying.
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yoyo200900 says

mist is probably just upset because you said "women". you should have said "people that are closer to female than male on the gender spectrum"


can you f_ck off
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Mist comes in here after everything is solved trying to make me the bad guy anyway
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mist is probably just upset because you said "women". you should have said "people that are closer to female than male on the gender spectrum"
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wow mist you're actually really condescending and horrible
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That's nonsense, I hit a homerun in person. And she showed up unannounced, so I don't think I really did anything wrong.
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but good job finding a way to completely absolve yourself of any blame. your bubble lives on.
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mist says

i wonder if some day you'll develop any amount of self-awareness.


What do you mean? I'm the one who talked to her, I know what was up now.
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i wonder if some day you'll develop any amount of self-awareness.
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Arcbell says

You probably didn't do anything all that wrong dude. The situation you were in was likely a no-win scenario because she was upset and emotional. When girls are emotional you can be in a no-win scenario and you just have to accept that. It's not like she's going to hold this over your head when she's feeling better that "ooh you said the wrong thing, even though there was really no right thing you could've said".

She'll let it go, so should you.


This was the guy who got it right.
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mist says

the best part about this thread is that the person who actually got it right is "thecolonel" of all people.


No you're wrong that's not what it was.
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the best part about this thread is that the person who actually got it right is "thecolonel" of all people.
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every page i think i've seen the worst of it and then it gets topped.

"buy her some chocolate" holy sh it dude.
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this entire thread is such a great way to sum up this site. holy f.ucking hell, guys.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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Recidivism says

send her to the kitchen to cook some oregano brownies. that's where women belong.


ftfy.
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If ten thousand years from now some guy is braving the archives of the deep internet for an answer to the question posed in this thread:

The answer is ignore her until she shows up with weed
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Devante says

But it's not really a white girl thing most girls are like this


Lono has been here through this entire thread but never figured out from sonseray's posts that his initial assumption about this situation was wrong (it was stated that it was multiple times iirc), and he's still being cocky and assuming all girls are "this particular type of girl that I decided was an archetypical female" and "no means yes 100% of the time because this is a GIRL not a human being"

Girls and guys alike can SOMETIMES be reasoned with, and should sometimes be spoken with honestly, like individual human beings. Gender doesn't nullify that any more than anything else and if you're treating some individual as just your preconceived notion of the demographics they fall into then well you can't possibly be too close, can you?

and I mean clearly you don't necessarily do this and I'm not trying to say you do, or that Lono does in reality, but I feel the need to explain why I don't think "most girls are like this" or "it's just a girl thing, accept it and don't talk to them straightforward if it's a serious issue to you" are decent philosophies to have when it comes to close personal relationships.

Not that I would know anything, really. But I earnestly believe that's something to keep in mind given all the really confident generalizations people were making and some of the advice given here lmao

not trying to be a #feminazisjw and if I'm being abrasive it's mostly facetious.
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Lono says

togepi and devante don't understand the situation. this is a white hoe that is in her depressive emotional feelings for something stupid, he isn't being clingy. she's using passive aggressive white girl methods to act like she doesn't want praises when she does.


Nah I've been with more white girls than anything, I know the situation like the back of my hand


But it's not really a white girl thing most girls are like this
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http://www.wikihow.com/Encourage-Your-Dog-to-Sleep-in-Your-Bed


>when wikihow already explains your problem and you didn't even know about it
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how about you dont be sexistim at all and not text us at all
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send her goatse and then she'll be upset at something you can apologise for and she'll forget about being upset at this. trust me.
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you are quite likeable sonesray
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never bring up reggie in an attempt to be funny. we don't joke about reggie