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Understanding Women

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Hypothetically, if you were texting a girl you love and she was being down on herself, so you try to flatter her and shower her with compliments, and then she responds with "No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"

What, hypothetically, the f.uck just happened?

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Blister says

i offer that she hypothetically looks down upon and scorns you for being crazy about her because she has a negative perception of herself


I hypothetically think you're correct and I'm just about over it, maybe I should just let her wallow in her negativity.
deletedalmost 8 years
though hypothetically that's pretty rude, yeah. Hypothetically i'd be really hurt by that if it were me.
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When a girl is upset you tell her she's fat and ugly that's what I would want to hear TBH it funny make me laugh
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i offer that she hypothetically looks down upon and scorns you for being crazy about her because she has a negative perception of herself
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Recidivism says


elephantasm says


Recidivism says


Lono says

sonseray why does it sound like you're just now discovering women's emotions


I dunno, I've never seen a women act like they do in this hypothetical scenario.


really? because hypothetically I feel like her emotions aren't all that uncommon. I don't think it's just women either, but I could be wrong. It's part of human nature to sometimes take things out on people who don't deserve it, I think. And hypothetically the only person who knows exactly what's going through her mind is this hypothetical woman herself, who hypothetically must be able to eventually talk it out with you, but not right now necessarily


Hypothetically doesn't it make more sense to be like: "Hey, thanks for being there for me even if you don't always say the right things" instead of being like "You need to stop trying." ?


hypothetically people are not simple computer programs that just take input and output a single answer that makes the most objective sense, and even if they think they're being perfectly rational, they usually aren't.
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YHWH says

shes got a man with a bigger **** and more money than u


Kiss Your Self
almost 8 years
shes got a man with a bigger **** and more money than u
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Recidivism says


elephantasm says

hypothetically everyone can be pretty emotional and crazy sometimes, and hypothetically she clearly has issues that either she's hypothetically willing to deal with, you're hypothetically willing to accept as part of the package, or hypothetically you two aren't a good mix


Hypothetically I'd be a lot more willing to accept her problems if she didn't snap at me for trying to help


hypothetically depending on the exact level of anger there's also the hypothetical possibility that the best thing you can do is say that you still believe those things and want to help her but she's not letting you so that, hypothetically, she can figure it out, at least when she hypothetically cools down a little.
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It's human response to blame other things for their problems

why do you think people yell at cashiers for messing up their order

it can easily be fixed. no one's losing a leg. but they yell and call the manager.

Because they think the customer's always right and cashiers are below them and they can do whatever they want to do to them because the person can't do anything in return without getting marked up for it
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elephantasm says


Recidivism says


Lono says

sonseray why does it sound like you're just now discovering women's emotions


I dunno, I've never seen a women act like they do in this hypothetical scenario.


really? because hypothetically I feel like her emotions aren't all that uncommon. I don't think it's just women either, but I could be wrong. It's part of human nature to sometimes take things out on people who don't deserve it, I think. And hypothetically the only person who knows exactly what's going through her mind is this hypothetical woman herself, who hypothetically must be able to eventually talk it out with you, but not right now necessarily


Hypothetically doesn't it make more sense to be like: "Hey, thanks for being there for me even if you don't always say the right things" instead of being like "You need to stop trying." ?
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Recidivism says


Lono says

sonseray why does it sound like you're just now discovering women's emotions


I dunno, I've never seen a women act like they do in this hypothetical scenario.


really? because hypothetically I feel like her emotions aren't all that uncommon. I don't think it's just women either, but I could be wrong. It's part of human nature to sometimes take things out on people who don't deserve it, I think. And hypothetically the only person who knows exactly what's going through her mind is this hypothetical woman herself, who hypothetically must be able to eventually talk it out with you, but not right now necessarily
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xxerox says

Hypothetically, she doesn't like when people are nice to her, because she has the self image that people should always be harsh with her and make her cry, so any person that is flattering her is doing something wrong. Because she thinks she doesnt deserve it.

So she will keep degrading herself more and more.


Hypothetically, I think this might be correct, and it both breaks my heart and frustrates me hypothetically.
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elephantasm says

hypothetically everyone can be pretty emotional and crazy sometimes, and hypothetically she clearly has issues that either she's hypothetically willing to deal with, you're hypothetically willing to accept as part of the package, or hypothetically you two aren't a good mix


Hypothetically I'd be a lot more willing to accept her problems if she didn't snap at me for trying to help
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Hypothetically, she doesn't like when people are nice to her, because she has the self image that people should always be harsh with her and make her cry, so any person that is flattering her is doing something wrong. Because she thinks she doesnt deserve it.

So she will keep degrading herself more and more.
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xxerox says

I will let you know, i could make any girl fall in love with me.

Or gay/bi boys too.


When I quoted your post it gave me your edit even though I didn't refresh

woah
deletedalmost 8 years
hypothetically everyone can be pretty emotional and crazy sometimes, and hypothetically she clearly has issues that either she's hypothetically willing to deal with, you're hypothetically willing to accept as part of the package, or hypothetically you two aren't a good mix
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Lono says

sonseray why does it sound like you're just now discovering women's emotions


I dunno, I've never seen a women act like they do in this hypothetical scenario.
almost 8 years

Jimbei says


xxerox says

"You are a cutie patutie, i like you so so very much , don't feel bad, you are a cute and great person!"

"No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"

"Yes you are , you need to stop! Whats next ? Telling the truth will make the girl you love get angry with you ?.... Oops.. already happenned >.>.

Just cheer up, ok ?"


in love with Yiff

don't listen to him


I will let you know, i could make any girl fall in love with me.

Or gay/bi boys too.
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"wait.. you love me ?"

"Oopsie doopsie ... You weren't supposed to know this ..."
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xxerox says

"You are a cutie patutie, i like you so so very much , don't feel bad, you are a cute and great person!"

"No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"

"Yes you are , you need to stop! Whats next ? Telling the truth will make the girl you love get angry with you ?.... Oops.. already happenned >.>.

Just cheer up, ok ?"


in love with Yiff

don't listen to him
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Recidivism says

Hypothetically women shouldn't lash out at the men in their lives when all they are trying to do is make you feel better, hypothetically maybe expecting us to understand that is crazy.


hypothetically she's acting very immature and selfish but she's also in a bad way and hypothetically either she's special enough to you for you to sort it out at a later time and forgive her or hypothetically, as jimbei said, you should let her go take it out on someone else.
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"You are a cutie patutie, i like you so so very much , don't feel bad, you are a cute and great person!"

"No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"

"Yes you are , you need to stop! Whats next ? Telling the truth will make the girl you love get angry with you ?.... Oops.. already happenned >.>.

Just cheer up, ok ?"
deletedalmost 8 years
sonseray why does it sound like you're just now discovering women's emotions
deletedalmost 8 years
Hypothetically women shouldn't lash out at the men in their lives when all they are trying to do is make you feel better, hypothetically maybe expecting us to understand that is crazy.
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I triple dog dare you that if things get worse instead of better to move on and try to better your life