Hypothetically, if you were texting a girl you love and she was being down on herself, so you try to flatter her and shower her with compliments, and then she responds with "No, I'm not any of those things, you need to stop"
What, hypothetically, the f.uck just happened?
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hypothetically everyone has their moments of emotional disconnect or lashing out at loved ones and it doesn't sound like now would be the hypothetical time to tell her you're offended, and maybe hypothetically you could do so later on when she's calmed down a little
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B.itch I might.
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Hypothetically, why would you sh.it on the only person in your life trying to be there for you?
Hypothetically, maybe that makes that person think less of you.
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hypothetical logs wouldn't be a personal conversation now would it
if someone is a burden to your life then cut them out
deletedalmost 8 years
Hypothetically maybe if she really feels like she isn't those things and you can't convincingly argue the point (or y'know, be more specific/concrete about it) then maybe she hypothetically just wants you to be there, and wants to vent, and doesn't want to be told something she hypothetically thinks is false/insincere. Hypothetically even if someone responds well to that sort of stuff in general, I think hypothetically it can be frustrating if it gets done so much that it's hypothetically hard to take that person seriously when they say it. Or hypothetically maybe it's really just her being moody and emotional and chemicals are making her react negatively to everything.
edit: missed the response to my last post when I said this. I guess she hypothetically thinks you're just biased because you love her, or hypothetically just really cares about the specific thing she's venting about and doesn't want to be told things that are irrelevant to it.
deletedalmost 8 years
Hypothetically, women can be more stress than they are worth.
deletedalmost 8 years
I don't think I'm going to do that, that is a little weirder than asking for hypothetical advice about a general scenario.
I certainly wouldn't want logs of my personal conversations posted on random corners of the internet.
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this is the comment of someone who has never been in a relationship with an emotional female.
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show us the hypothetical logs of how the situation would play out of what you've described in the opening post
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Hypothetically every thing I told her would have been 100% true and compliments completely unique to her and from the heart, and also she wouldn't have vented about anything, just stated that she is upset and then got upset.
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Or maybe she just wanted to vent and didn't want to be told something she didn't think was true, hypothetically.
edit: oh. When you hypothetically asked her, she got mad?
deletedalmost 8 years
Because she got mad at me when I tried to do that, hypothetically.
This is not someone who still wants to currently be in contact with you. Anyway work ends in 5 minutes for me so Sonseray will have to figure this out without me, god help him.
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People get mad at you showing support after they self deprecate
Move onto someone worth your time
(hypothetically)
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Hypothetically I agree that she's probably insecure and doubting the validity of your comments and hypothetically if she's a serious life partner you've known for a while already then why not ask her what she's thinking, and tell her that she is those things if you think she is?
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i think you missed the part where she did get in contact with him first which is why this all started. she obviously doesn't want to be left alone lol
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Hypothetically it would be f.ucking nonsense that being there for her emotionally is somehow offensive so maybe I'd be okay acting like a woman
This is what you should do. There is nothing more unattractive than someone that is desperate for approval and will seek it at any cost. She will get in touch with you when she wants to talk.
Hypothetically I think I'd just want to leave her the hell alone because obviously I can't do anything right
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because pranay is wrong. don't take the situation seriously. if you've been with her for months, and this behavior is abnormal, just keep telling her shes wrong in being down on herself, compliment her but not too much over the course of the texting, and it will eventually pass
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She's either A. Lying and just trying to be humble so it doesn't look like she has an ego or B. She's insecure for whatever reason
You're a moron
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Well then hypothetically why text me in the first place at all?
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So hypothetically if a girl tells you that she is feeling down, you should just be like "Well Okay, that makes sense, seeya?"
