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How Do I Start Socializing?

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This was a great thread.

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They way you act and behave is based on the way you think. You have to agree with this statement if you want to change how you behave. Technology and computer can be a constraint and limitation on how you socially act because your primary interaction is via chatting online anonymously. This might be a difficult decision to make but limit the time you spend on computers, smart phones, or video games. You have to allocate your time accordingly and spend time interacting with human beings FACE-to-FACE.
Go to the grocery store, bank, or a public venue and say a simple "Hi". Take Baby Steps as you progress. Keep getting into the habit of saying hello and asking them questions. Take the courage and confidence. If they don't respond back, don't take it personal and move on. You have to be confident and boost your self esteem up by finding your passion and finding a self-gratification of joy. Engage people despite age and ask them questions. Small Talk can do wonders even thought it might be very awkward for some.

I highly recommend a book by Dale Carneige "How to Win Friends and Influence People" if you have not read it yet. In addition, join groups on meetup.com to meet new people. Take the initiative.
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Just get tinder, become a tinder God and bang ever girl within 20 miles of your location then once your body count is in the triple digits the bros will have no choice but to respect you
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Well your first problem is you still think Steve Nash is relevant to anything
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sweetnkind says

Just get hot and ppl will wanna be ur friend regardless of how annoying u are


gee i wonder who on this site has such qualities. theres gotta be someone like that around here.....
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Just get hot and ppl will wanna be ur friend regardless of how annoying u are
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Nerds are quite attractive to nerds though, dont you think?
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no people who read are nerds
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confidence is a "fake it till ya make it" kinda thing. just pretend you're confident and you'll eventually feel confident.

as far as dating advice goes...people who read a lot of books are generally perceived as more attractive.
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Text me back I'm really have nothing to do
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Someone help I meed more social advice and/or Steve Nash highlights
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I'll branch
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talk about your cats
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bug me on skype around the time and i'll give you my number
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I wish I were Steve Nash's dad
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i wish steve nash was my dad
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im a fan of the chill beat but it's not exactly the most groundbreaking, would suggest branching yourself out more rutab
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ChilledOut says

Thinking about myself more in-depth, the reason I probably wanted to be dissociated from the cow gimmick was that I did not see myself positively. I wanted to re-brand myself as someone not-so-cow because I thought of my image as uncool and needed a change.

Now, I'm a frog on a lily pad with a better taste of music and a slightly more advanced vocabulary


oh i didn't realize it was a frog

chill
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connor, ngl, i am imagining some 'the hangover' type sht rn lol
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don't worry about it mate, leave it all to me. this is def happening tho lol
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the one and only time i got drunk it put me off blackcurrent for life
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like i'm not saying i'm opposed to drinking but it's a very much "how daring i feel on the day" thing because you'd have to find something that i actually like to drink
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ChilledOut says

Thanks Retti


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well my plan was to meet you and do whatever it is you decided to do
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Connor says

actually if i don't make it to day 2 i probably will do it because fuq sitting at the venue all day feeling like shite about losing


do mate. i dunno what the fck we could go do, but we'll figure something