about 6 years

im so tired of people not recognizing ace/aro people as lgbt. what yall think????

this is coming from the big gay herself so i think i can speak on this issue

what yall think
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no not really
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they gay
about 6 years
how about you aren't "queer" if you're simply gender nonconforming?
about 6 years
people need to learn to fuckng log off lol
about 6 years
[quote=dyke]Edited: oop
about 6 years
wait i thought truscum thought nonbinary people were fake

and transmeds thought there were transtrenders and need dysphoria
about 6 years
nah i'm lost again. are you saying that the Q represents pre-op trans people or that is represents, as they say on tumblr, "truscum"
about 6 years
those people are transmeds which are scum
about 6 years

dyke says

i literally prefaced that with 'this isnt a gotcha' what more did i need to say

genderkweer falls under trans just like nonbinary does
if you're not cis, you're trans(there's just different ways)

also you said it yourself! the lgbt community isnt just about sexuality! its not! its about combating homophobia and transphobia

if you dont experience those you're not lgbt


That's not what I meant by "not just sexuality". I meant that it also deals with gender identity as well.

I won't say whether I agree with the Q being needed, but it's only there because many people only consider someone to be trans if they transition/are planning to transition, or if they have severe dysphoria.
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ulmaridae says


Captcha says


sl0nderman says

so genderqueer (if i agreed that it was a real thing) would be an identity, not a sexual orientation. i don't know what the f*ck you're trying to say with "homoromatic heterosexual." can we just admit that nothing falls under queer that isn't covered by lgbt?


Did you forget what the T stands for in LGBT? It's not only about sexuality...

If you don't understand you can go search it up or read my previous comments, but i know you won't because you are feigning ignorance.


reread his last sentence lol


Many people don't consider people to be trans if they don't transition or if they don't experience extreme dysphoria, so the Q is for the people who think that. I won't say whether I do or not.
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dyke says

homoflexible grey-ace


do i have internalized aphobia if this gave me an aneurysm
about 6 years
i literally prefaced that with 'this isnt a gotcha' what more did i need to say

genderkweer falls under trans just like nonbinary does
if you're not cis, you're trans(there's just different ways)

also you said it yourself! the lgbt community isnt just about sexuality! its not! its about combating homophobia and transphobia

if you dont experience those you're not lgbt
about 6 years

Captcha says


sl0nderman says

so genderqueer (if i agreed that it was a real thing) would be an identity, not a sexual orientation. i don't know what the f*ck you're trying to say with "homoromatic heterosexual." can we just admit that nothing falls under queer that isn't covered by lgbt?


Did you forget what the T stands for in LGBT? It's not only about sexuality...

If you don't understand you can go search it up or read my previous comments, but i know you won't because you are feigning ignorance.


reread his last sentence lol
about 6 years

dyke says

im not trying to say 'gotcha' with what i'm about to say but

before i realized i was a lesbian i had lots of internalized homophobia and comphet

i dated a guy and genuinely thought i liked him

then i thought i was homoflexible grey-ace

it was all internalized homophobia and immense dysphoria


Your story is not everyone else's.
about 6 years

sl0nderman says

so genderqueer (if i agreed that it was a real thing) would be an identity, not a sexual orientation. i don't know what the f*ck you're trying to say with "homoromatic heterosexual." can we just admit that nothing falls under queer that isn't covered by lgbt?


Did you forget what the T stands for in LGBT? It's not only about sexuality...

If you don't understand you can go search it up or read my previous comments, but i know you won't because you are feigning ignorance.
about 6 years
INTERNALIZED homophobia smh
about 6 years

dyke says

>homoromatic heterosexual

just say you have internalized homophobia and go


I hope that's a joke because romantic feelings can be separated from sex. I know it often appears from homophobia, but it can also just be natural.
about 6 years
im not trying to say 'gotcha' with what i'm about to say but

before i realized i was a lesbian i had lots of internalized homophobia and comphet

i dated a guy and genuinely thought i liked him

then i thought i was homoflexible grey-ace

it was all internalized homophobia and immense dysphoria
about 6 years

Captcha says


ulmaridae says

what is queer even supposed to mean as an identity.......



sl0nderman says


Captcha says


sl0nderman says

can someone define this "Q+" for me thanks


Queer


what does queer encompass


It can either mean gender queer (an example would be people who prefer to be seen as androgynous) or queer as in "I'm actually a homoromantic heterosexual/some other confusing sexuality, but it's just easier to say I'm queer or bi to get it over with"


so genderqueer (if i agreed that it was a real thing) would be an identity, not a sexual orientation. i don't know what the f*ck you're trying to say with "homoromatic heterosexual." can we just admit that nothing falls under queer that isn't covered by lgbt?
about 6 years

sl0nderman says


ulmaridae says

slond begone thot smh


i mean i call people f*gs regularly so sensitivity to slurs isn't my strong point


no this is twice you've sniped me
about 6 years
>homoromatic heterosexual

just say you have internalized homophobia and go
about 6 years

ulmaridae says

slond begone thot smh


i mean i call people f*gs regularly so sensitivity to slurs isn't my strong point
about 6 years

ulmaridae says

what is queer even supposed to mean as an identity.......



sl0nderman says


Captcha says


sl0nderman says

can someone define this "Q+" for me thanks


Queer


what does queer encompass


It can either mean gender queer (an example would be people who prefer to be seen as androgynous) or queer as in "I'm actually a homoromantic heterosexual/some other confusing sexuality, but it's just easier to say I'm queer or bi to get it over with"
about 6 years
honestly why would you want to be lgbt

here we are illegal in so many countries
punishable by death
mass murdered

and aces rly out here demanding to join us
about 6 years
slond begone thot smh
about 6 years
not gonna happen vapid, many people take a lot of issue with being called queer
about 6 years

Vapid says

They should just get rid of the LGBT and call it queer.


that's what i do but a lot of people are still not happy about the word queer, and as this thread as an example, it's still not a clear definition to some