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almost 7 years

Since epicmafiA is home to the easily triggered I would like to know why (white) people find c*nt to be such an offensive word ?

I don’t think I’ve ever used it to offend anyone cus it kinda comes off as hella dorky

Can someone explain pls genuinely interested lol

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haha thats funny im... sniggering
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Considering he thought that níggardly was somehow related, I'm guessing he's a bit young
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ImScummy says


blacksnakemoan says


If you agree that it implies being black is shameful, can I ask how you see it as an OK word to be used by non-black people given its history as a word created for the sole purpose of expressing hate?


Because when someone uses "n*gga" as a greeting they have no harsh intentions at all. It's practically a different word. I don't use it, but I am not bothered by it. I understand WHY it would make someone mad, but it's not really that hard to understand why it's not harmful.

Like I said, using it to insult is bad, but I rarely hear people using "n*gga" to insult anyway, only "n*gger".


Lol absolutely not
The fk??

If a white friend of mine ever said “yo ngga” id beat the fk out of them.
When I talk to black friends it’s a word we use together. When a white person uses it; idc what you say. Even for me the history of the word is triggered in the back of my head . So no, White people shouldnt feel comfortable calling a black person “ngga” even in greeting them.
Get that stupid coon logic all the way out of here.
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Fair enough
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blacksnakemoan says


If you agree that it implies being black is shameful, can I ask how you see it as an OK word to be used by non-black people given its history as a word created for the sole purpose of expressing hate?


Because when someone uses "n*gga" as a greeting they have no harsh intentions at all. It's practically a different word. I don't use it, but I am not bothered by it. I understand WHY it would make someone mad, but it's not really that hard to understand why it's not harmful.

Like I said, using it to insult is bad, but I rarely hear people using "n*gga" to insult anyway, only "n*gger".
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Níggardly has no connection to the N-word, it's from Middle English while the N word is from the Spanish for black.

If you agree that it implies being black is shameful, can I ask how you see it as an OK word to be used by non-black people given its history as a word created for the sole purpose of expressing hate?
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Arc says

what does everyone think of the word n*ggardly?


Preface: I happen to be very black

I think anyone can use the word "n*gga"; it's usually used as a greeting or endearment and not a way to insult. I don't care if you're paler than this screen. It's fine to use.

However, I don't think anyone should use "n*gga" or more commonly "n*gger" to insult. It insinuates that you think having African descent is something to be shamed. So to answer your question,"n*ggardly" is an insultive adjective so I think it's pretty bad to use :/
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You're such a nïggard!
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Devante says

& I was clearly joking if u read my interaction w Jeff where he implies I don’t know what reclaim means and why black people reclaimed ngga


I figured, but never miss a chance to PUFF MY CHEST

@Arc it's great, always makes situations uncomfortable!
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what does everyone think of the word n*ggardly?
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blacksnakemoan says

I said poc because there aren't a lot of black people where I live but I still hear it from Indians and Pacific Islanders lmao

on the reclamation thing, -a is a derivative of -er. Etymonline has it as a regional pronunciation of the N word in the south (https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=). The other alternative is that if the N word is reclaimed, then -a is just a modern version of it where language has evolved. Either way, it's a reclaimed word lmao, bc otherwise Kendrick and the rest of the world wouldn't give a damn if white girl said it.


Ohh ok

& I was clearly joking if u read my interaction w Jeff where he implies I don’t know what reclaim means and why black people reclaimed ngga
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I said poc because there aren't a lot of black people where I live but I still hear it from Indians and Pacific Islanders lmao

on the reclamation thing, -a is a derivative of -er. Etymonline has it as a regional pronunciation of the N word in the south (https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=). The other alternative is that if the N word is reclaimed, then -a is just a modern version of it where language has evolved. Either way, it's a reclaimed word lmao, bc otherwise Kendrick and the rest of the world wouldn't give a damn if white girl said it.
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God you white people are actually gonna trigger me for the first time.

Holy smokes lmao
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peach says


Flygon says



qu**r


of all the words for laurie rose to miss


holy christ this is so f*cking funny. qu**r


agreed, quair is a bad word
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If you’re black you’re 100% the person to use it, since I’m pretty sure white people in the 50’s weren’t doing an ancestory test when calling u a ngger
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There is a HUGE difference in a and er. a is chill and not super serious but can be offence er is legit racism and you would be a bad person for saying it
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Also if you're a poc but not African American and not part of the African disapora in the Caribbean, you're probably not the right person to use it lmao
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blacksnakemoan says

dropping my 2cents, there is no difference between -a and -er N-word when used by a non-black person.

It's been reclaimed by the black community, but when a white person uses it, whether with intent to offend or not, they're undermining reclamation because it isn't being de-powered for THEIR use.

Like somethingwhtever said, it's reclaimed for that culture, not for any other.


I don’t think you know what reclamation means .. if it’s not the EXACT word it can’t be reclaimed lol
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dropping my 2cents, there is no difference between -a and -er N-word when used by a non-black person.

It's been reclaimed by the black community, but when a white person uses it, whether with intent to offend or not, they're undermining reclamation because it isn't being de-powered for THEIR use.

Like somethingwhtever said, it's reclaimed for that culture, not for any other.
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Fortnite is actually really good xela
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It's not due to race. It's cultural. For some reason us Americans think it's okay and even hilarious when Aussies call each other c'unts, but when we say it, it's like the rudest thing ever
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Devante says


JeffreyAaron says

if we are gonna talk about reclamation then you have to realize the word that has been used hatefully is the one with the hard-R, the one with an -A is not used by people who want to slur or offend. faggöt is undoubtedly the word that has been used to offend and is still used, and is the same one that is reclaimed. you can talk about reclamation with the hard-R, but without the hard -R, that's not reclamation, that's just not wanting it used.


I don’t even know where to begin with this post lol

The word ngga was reclaimed by black people, but as a term of endearment AMONG blacks.
It’s sorta like black people doing the head nod when we see each other in public, if a random white guy nodded his head at me id be like “wtf”

There is no reason to argue semantics here; the word was clearly an offspring of ngger, which was used hatefully.



me and my highschool friends on fortnite have a few words to disagree with your monopoly on words
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Flygon says



qu**r


of all the words for laurie rose to miss


holy christ this is so f*cking funny. qu**r
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i still don't think you understand reclamation but i really cannot care less. say what you want, get mad when you want, just try to avoid being hateful yourself. das' it.
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I was not comparing reclaimation to that, I was comparing the the endearment among blacks to the head nod .