With all the coverage on TV and online recently, I just wanted to ask you guys a question - would you date a transgender person? Reasoning is cool, saying yes or no is cool, just don't put any dumb in the comments
My sister is pansexual, that just means she would sleep with a trans person right?
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Sexual compatibility is a major part of a healthy relationship and there is nothing wrong with that
Also a lot of people find it a turn off when their partner can't have kids, so why go through the emotions with someone when you ultimately can't get what you want
Another thing is that there is a lot of taboo and other things when dating a trans, its not like bringing your black girlfriend home and hoping your parents aren't racist. There are many philosophical and religious views that dont support the idea of transexuals.
To me when i could find a born female why would i knowingly go into a situation where there could cause problems in my, sex, friends, family and future family life for someone that i hardly know.
I'm perfectly accepting of everyone but its not something i would want to deal with in my personal life
"attraction is not a choice therefore no" is a bullshít answer considering the brain will never be hard wired to only ever find attraction to "Genuine" Femininity or Váginas
From what I'm seeing, I get the gut feeling they're all trans.
Voted 'no' because I agree that attraction is not a choice. I'm accepting of homosexual people for this reason too. To me, dating is a trial run for marriage, and in my head, marriage = kids. Biological kids. Judge me for that if you will, I have my reasons for thinking that, but won't justify myself as to not encourage a 'Burden of Proof' logical fallacy. The fact that I don't want a partner in life at all is a discussion for another day.
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Nothing. I just don't believe you should mess W/ Mother Nature.
Like it's really not? People chose who they date regardless of gender in the first place based on looks, personality etc. I'm glad people are being sensitive towards transgender people but honestly saying you wouldn't date someone isn't the end of the world for them, both opinions are perfectly fine
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Before going on any dates I always make sure to inform the girl that I used to be a guy. I also make sure to tell her I'm still a guy as well just to avoid any confusion.
also whats with the "im straight so of cours ethe answer is no" responses? uh hello u freaking transphobe WOMAN are not men you freaking idiot.
if you think being attracted to transwomen makes u gay than that means you think being attracted to transmen is straight, right? by the same logic, it is. but that makes no sense. its almost like u have no logic and youre just a idiot lol
if u actually say no to dating a transowman flat out then what are u even doing?? the question was about dating , nothing about sex, if u say no then that means u only care about sex and not who a person is on the inside or who they really are and not what their external genitals are shaped like.
♫♫One of these things is not like the other. One of these things looks like a man.♫♫
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That said, I'd never date someone if I knew beforehand they were transgender. You're giving nature the big F-bomb.
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I don't think phrases like "by the way I used to be a man" is something you can just slip into conversation. It's also not relevant to anything posted in this thread.
I'm not being harsh, I'm just asking him to demonstrate his assertion, that all transwomen except Bailey Jay look like men, by telling me which of the above ladies is transgender.
Guys let's not be too harsh on him. It's a really new, touchy subject. Uranus, the girl should tell you out of the gate, and you wouldn't have to guess anyway.
Pop quiz. Which of the following girls is transgender? You should be able to tell just fine since all trans girls, except Bailey Jay of course, look like men.
