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With all the coverage on TV and online recently, I just wanted to ask you guys a question - would you date a transgender person? Reasoning is cool, saying yes or no is cool, just don't put any dumb in the comments

Yea or naw?
39
No
24
Yes
7
I'm not sure
3
Only if they were a perfect 10
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This is a damned if you do, damned if you don't question. It's SUCH a gray zone. I'm hetero, and I wouldn't. But whenever I've said that, people call me a . I respect whatever you want to do, it's your choice, I don't care. But for me? It's just... gray. Idk. It's a definite no.
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Also, I think if we judge people for not being attracted to someone it's a bit wrong. We can't control who we're attracted too. Sexuality isn't a choice. I think it's a bit backwards to call someone a bigot if they'd never date someone who was transgendered
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I mean I'm pretty confident in my sexuality (Heterosexual) , and I'm currently in a relationship. But, I guess I'd be open minded that if I liked someone enough I could look past what genitalia they have or don't have. But in all honesty I'm attracted to females, so I don't think it would happen.

Now some people could say, hey, what about MtF. Well let's be honest, unless you're Bailey Jay, you probably don't look much like a girl. And while looks aren't everything, I'm just not that attracted to the male figure.

TL;DR: if they were truly special then maybe, but it'd probably never happen.
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Retti says

everyone voting no should be culled


Modern discrimination against cis people. Just because I have a personal preference against dating former members of my own gender doesn't make me awful. It's genetics - just as being a homosexual is not a choice.
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I AM DATING A TRANS PERSON AND SHES HELLA CUTE TBH
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in a heartbeat I would
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No thanks.
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yes i wuold
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Retti says

everyone voting no should be culled


I don't even blame them. It's a hell of a curse.
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This is an uplifting thread
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I hate retti
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it was all a clever ruse
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U got tricked friend.
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was it copypasta? okay now I feel cheated
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Retti says

my girlfriend is trans.

i've told her how much i love her on many occasions. i had to have an honest heart with myself, because i want to have sex with her and make her happy, but it will be a while before she can have her surgery (she wants everything, HRT therapy and the SRS surgery).

so yeah, i decided that right now, her peepee is part of who she is, and i want to make her happy. so yes, i would be willing to do that for her.

obviously, i prefer sex (I mean hell, she told me she not only wants a because she "wants to ride me so f*cking badly" which made me blush) but it's funny..i don't like dudes. i like women. and even though my girlfriend wasn't born one, i see her as one, because she acts like one and sees herself as one.

so, i look at it like im sucking my girlfriend's peepee. =)

now, none of this has happened yet, because we are also long distance, so we have only talked over the internet, but holy he double hockey sticks, every time i talk to her i get that warm tingly love feeling, not just sexually aroused..it's more than that.

so yeah, i know this is epicmaifa, and i know people will come out and call me gay for wanting to make my girlfriend happy because i have her. i dont care. i just wanted to say why this thread upsets me.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTKkQ5VCW7g
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Answer remains the same
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For the people that voted no or I'm not sure, is it possible your answer would change if they had gone through the full operation(s)? (including changes to sex organs)
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I didn't want to date a trans, but after reading Retti's post I am strongly considering it.

Love isn't something that can be defined or hindered by physical characteristics. Thanks for opening my mind to that Retti, and shame on the moderators for trying to censor the notion of love that can transcend physical sexual organs.

Really a beautiful post, and one I will be showing to friends and family.
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Hibiki says

i only date perfect 10s, cis or otherwise


i like this answer
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I said no, because who I'm attracted to isnt a choice
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Pavoneo says


BillStickers says

maybe someone should tell phil that there's a bug with forum mod negs that's affecting the games lobby so he'll actually fix it


>things getting fixed

Where do you think we are




whoosh
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lucid hasnt fixed unsuspend from forums yet...and it's been like 5 years
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everyone voting no should be culled
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BillStickers says

maybe someone should tell phil that there's a bug with forum mod negs that's affecting the games lobby so he'll actually fix it


>things getting fixed

Where do you think we are