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How the HECK

almost 9 years

do you get over someone that you were with for a year+ and lived with? I've never experienced this before and I need help before I die of chest pain.

almost 9 years
Your primary concern should be whether you actually want to stay with your grandparents and how you moving in is going to impact them.
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lycii do you live in california or anywhere near los angeles cuz i can maybe talk krystal into it
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Lycii says

I'm mostly just looking for ways to keep my mind off of it or to ease the pain a little. I've had to deal with break ups but never with completely changing my life around like this.


There's no such thing. It's like saying "My leg got cut off and I want to stop thinking about walking."
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Lycii says


mindful says

sign up for gym (did you know that you can use health insurance for cheap membership?) you'll feel so much better and working out helps you forget problems w/ ppl !!!!

or consider taking art class (like drawing, making pottery, etc) - the more u express ur feelings the less intense it gets

good luck


Thank you so much! Those are really good ideas.


i edited + added this: "from my experience, try not to talk to people about ur ex too much because you never get to focus on yourself alone and actually get repaired. also ppl usually dont like hearing about the relationship problems. try to do something that you can do alone."
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vilden says

I don't think you should rebound cuz you might think less of yourself afterwards, or feel ashamed. unless ofc your rebound is with me and krystal in a 3way


10/10 idea
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keri says


harodihg says

You have to build a life that doesn't remind you of that person and makes you happy independent of anyone else


this is so important you gotta take baby steps


wtf u negged his comment
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I don't think you should rebound cuz you might think less of yourself afterwards, or feel ashamed. unless ofc your rebound is with me and krystal in a 3way
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mindful says

sign up for gym (did you know that you can use health insurance for cheap membership?) you'll feel so much better and working out helps you forget problems w/ ppl !!!!

or consider taking art class (like drawing, making pottery, etc) - the more u express ur feelings the less intense it gets

good luck


Thank you so much! Those are really good ideas.
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sign up for gym (did you know that you can use health insurance for cheap membership?) you'll feel so much better and working out helps you forget problems w/ ppl !!!!

or consider taking art class (like drawing, making pottery, etc) - the more u express ur feelings the less intense it gets

from my experience, try not to talk to people about ur ex too much because you never get to focus on yourself alone and actually get repaired. also ppl usually dont like hearing about the relationship problems. try to do something that you can do alone.

good luck
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Thank you all for being helpful. Keep the ideas and advice coming! I appreciate it so much.
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UniversalStudios says

You're not going to get over in a day/week/month. It's up to you to control your emotions and keep your life together.


I'm mostly just looking for ways to keep my mind off of it or to ease the pain a little. I've had to deal with break ups but never with completely changing my life around like this.
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You're not going to get over in a day/week/month. It's up to you to control your emotions and keep your life together.
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I leave my curtains open at night hoping someone will look in and see me, but nobody ever does. I'm not an exhibitionist, I'm just lonely.
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try going on long walks. go get lost somewhere. it's super useful for clarity and to figure stuff out, in my experience.
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anything and loud music really
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long walks and loud music
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harodihg says

You have to build a life that doesn't remind you of that person and makes you happy independent of anyone else


this is so important you gotta take baby steps
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video games and loud music
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peach says

shave ur head


just call me britney spears
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rebound lolz
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shave ur head
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Hunt says

Play a game of epicmafia with mikeyru. Your anger will outweigh your despair. This is not a joke. 3 years ago when my gf left me I played with maymay .


or just play mafia in general
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Hunt says

Play a game of epicmafia with mikeyru. Your anger will outweigh your despair. This is not a joke. 3 years ago when my gf left me I played with maymay .

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Playing with MikeyRu is incomparable to playing with maymay
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Play a game of epicmafia with mikeyru. Your anger will outweigh your despair. This is not a joke. 3 years ago when my gf left me I played with maymay .