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How the HECK

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do you get over someone that you were with for a year+ and lived with? I've never experienced this before and I need help before I die of chest pain.

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this wouldn't have happened if your partner was 2D
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UniversalStudios says

So you're going to claim that you used a psych ward to recover from a bad relationship, or can you stop being a douchelord in a thread that's not about you?


Why would you check into a psych ward to recover from a bed relationship?
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playlist of t swift breakup songs on repeat
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Devante says

i never understand any of the memes/gifs my dude zovea post. They almost never relate to what he says or what he's replying to



UniversalStudios says


Lycii says

Yeah, that. Except he stole my rent money from my wallet so idk what to do about that.






Lycii says

Thanks Judge Joe Brown.



UniversalStudios says


Lycii says

It's too late, he already took it. He took it out before he even came home and started the fight, which makes me think this was all planned.




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Thanks everyone.
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Okay so rent might not be a problem, but don't kid yourself into thinking you're going to get anything handled in court in time for this not to become a problem. It actually sounds like you don't need to keep discussing your private issues on the forums so keep your head up and find other spit to focus on, like enjoying Christmas.
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me neither
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i don't see how things didn't work out
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it would be more than enough proof. her employer will have the payroll stub for the amount she was given. she won't have any cash deposited in her bank (she kept it in cash). i bet the idiot already deposited the cash into his account, so they could check into that, not to mention he admitted to stealing it.
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mindful says


Lycii says


Devante says

a judge actually won't do anything if u claim he stole money since he can just deny it.

you should get him to text you admitting to havin the money and refusing to give it back so you can bring that to court, also get the amount in the text aswell


My neighbor saw him do it though, and he did send me a text admitting it. He denied it at first but finally he was like "I think I dropped half of it on the floor but if you can't find it I'll give you the rest" like wtf??? give it all back to me dumb a


the judge will probably say that text message is very vague. devante is right. you should text him and ask why he would take money away from you? so he can be like "well i took money blah blah" oval evidence is an out of court statement to prove the truth so your best bet is to get the message that clearly shows he actually did it.


Yeah, I did get a text like that from him. I was just saying that he tried to justify not giving it all back to me by claiming he left some of it there. But in the rest of the texts he very clearly states that he took it and that he was just trying to get back at me for whatever.
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Lycii says


Devante says

a judge actually won't do anything if u claim he stole money since he can just deny it.

you should get him to text you admitting to havin the money and refusing to give it back so you can bring that to court, also get the amount in the text aswell


My neighbor saw him do it though, and he did send me a text admitting it. He denied it at first but finally he was like "I think I dropped half of it on the floor but if you can't find it I'll give you the rest" like wtf??? give it all back to me dumb a


the judge will probably say that text message is very vague. devante is right. you should text him and ask why he would take money away from you? so he can be like "well i took money blah blah" oval evidence is an out of court statement to prove the truth so your best bet is to get the message that clearly shows he actually did it.
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Devante says

people still use rihanna as the face of domestic abuse 6 years later?


It's not a subject I care about or keep up to date on.
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Devante says

a judge actually won't do anything if u claim he stole money since he can just deny it.

you should get him to text you admitting to havin the money and refusing to give it back so you can bring that to court, also get the amount in the text aswell


My neighbor saw him do it though, and he did send me a text admitting it. He denied it at first but finally he was like "I think I dropped half of it on the floor but if you can't find it I'll give you the rest" like wtf??? give it all back to me dumb a
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a judge actually won't do anything if u claim he stole money without evidence since he can just deny it & you lived together.

you should get him to text you admitting to havin the money and refusing to give it back so you can bring that to court, also get the amount in the text aswell
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vilden says

lycii, it sounds like ur ex is in deepshit if you take him to small claims court. i can see a judge totally fking him for stealing the money out of your wallet after a one year relationship. not to mention it's your rent money and it happening on christmas eve


I've really really considered that. I'll give him a chance to do the right thing first but if he doesn't, then that's probably what I'm going to do.
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lycii, it sounds like ur ex is in deepshit if you take him to small claims court. i can see a judge totally fking him for stealing the money out of your wallet after a one year relationship. not to mention it's your rent money and it happening on christmas eve
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I can joke too. :')
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people still use rihanna as the face of domestic abuse 6 years later?
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Lycii says

Like pancake batter?




Yea sure tell jokes.
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UniversalStudios says


Lycii says

That's why I'm done with this whole relationship/situation anyways. Even if there was stuff that could be worked out or he apologized and what not, I wouldn't ever want to deal with the violent person I know he can become. It's just amazing to me how someone can become a completely different person after a year.


You're not the same person either.



Right, but I mean that he was never violent before and the sudden change to throwing stuff and being verbally and physically abusive is a really dramatic change.
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Lycii says

That's why I'm done with this whole relationship/situation anyways. Even if there was stuff that could be worked out or he apologized and what not, I wouldn't ever want to deal with the violent person I know he can become. It's just amazing to me how someone can become a completely different person after a year.


You're not the same person either.
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Like pancake batter?
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UniversalStudios says


Lycii says

I definitely don't think it was okay. It just wasn't as horrible as it could have been, is what I'm getting at.


Yea, THIS TIME. You shouldn't consent to be with anyone that doesn't respect you enough to reserve violence from you.



That's why I'm done with this whole relationship/situation anyways. Even if there was stuff that could be worked out or he apologized and what not, I wouldn't ever want to deal with the violent person I know he can become. It's just amazing to me how someone can become a completely different person after a year.
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But that line of reasoning follows excuses made by every battered woman. Lycii you are a battered woman.