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How the HECK

almost 9 years

do you get over someone that you were with for a year+ and lived with? I've never experienced this before and I need help before I die of chest pain.

almost 9 years
become your alter ego, liesee
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Lycii says

That's a lot easier said than done. Most of my life revolved around them, and the only thing I can do now is break my lease and move in with my grandparents. It's so hard to have everything change and everything feels wrong


I'm talking with experience, I lived with someone for 7 years, but it was time for me to leave and find myself. It gets easier, change is hard, but it is for you to overcome it.
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touche
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Hunt says

Coitus


i'm crying
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Coitus
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almost 9 years
I guess that's the only thing I can do. I just wish there was some way I could fix the pain that comes from all of this because it really sucks.
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It'll be better in the long run to just quit cold turkey though. Your relationship is over you need to cut off from them and have no contact for a long time until you're completely over them
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papuito says

Hey lycii,

i recommend doing thing that are fun that sorta take your mind off of the whole thing. Also remember its okay to like feel bad about it don't get down on yourself for it or anything. And stay positive like over time you will feel better unless your like Adele. Speaking of Adele songs might help too. Hopefully this helped you! Happy holidays


Thank you Pap <3
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harodihg says

Break the lease and move in with your grandparents and see where things go from there then. You're still young so just use this to learn or whatever


That'll be really hard for me. It's weird to go from seeing them every day and always being around them, to not at all.
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eris says

Kill them.


Agreed.
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Hey lycii,

i recommend doing thing that are fun that sorta take your mind off of the whole thing. Also remember its okay to like feel bad about it don't get down on yourself for it or anything. And stay positive like over time you will feel better unless your like Adele. Speaking of Adele songs might help too. Hopefully this helped you! Happy holidays
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Break the lease and move in with your grandparents and see where things go from there then. You're still young so just use this to learn or whatever
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Kill them.
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That's a lot easier said than done. Most of my life revolved around them, and the only thing I can do now is break my lease and move in with my grandparents. It's so hard to have everything change and everything feels wrong
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You have to build a life that doesn't remind you of that person and makes you happy independent of anyone else
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yes, a bird must leave its nest