Back to General Discussion

Transgendered 6 year Old?

about 9 years

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhx2auSudRf3n6t5b5

A former Texas educator filed a federal discrimination complaint against a learning center in Katy, Texas, after being fired for refusing to address a 6-year-old girl as a transgender boy.The boys parents were a same sex couple

Thoughts? o.O

Was the teacher justified in calling the student a girl
40
No
25
Yes
about 9 years

Felons says

The teachers religion has nothing to do with this, just like the parents sexual orientation doesn't lol


no it very much does. she said she was justified because she trusts god['s "original decision"]
about 9 years
Well to be fair, the teacher did talk about being religious and therefore they felt it was sinful to be anything other than male/female. Which in fairness, if that's what you believe then fair enough. At least that's an adult decision, not the decision of a 6 year old.
about 9 years

Felons says


angelic says

who the hell said his parents pushed a sexuality on him

my god

people need to stop being obsessed with others affairs that aren't hurting anyone else. maybe katy wants to be addressed as a boy now. maybe katy will have a change of heart later. maybe the child is bigendered. who knows. let the kid decide for himself and do what makes him happy


You think the parents had NO influence on this 6 year old calling themselves a boy?


perhaps the parents were open-minded in allowing the child to identify as preferred gender moreso than straight parents may be

i don't see that as pushing a gender on a child
about 9 years

Hibiki says


Stragger says

Teacher thought girl looked like girl

called said girl a girl

somehow defamed as transphobic in lieu of a 6 year old without a developed brain who cannot make decisions themselves


??


if you watched the vid you'd have seen the teacher clearly stood by her decision based on christianity of all the stupid things you could


The teachers religion has nothing to do with this, just like the parents sexual orientation doesn't lol
deletedabout 9 years

Hibiki says


Stragger says

Teacher thought girl looked like girl

called said girl a girl

somehow defamed as transphobic in lieu of a 6 year old without a developed brain who cannot make decisions themselves


??


if you watched the vid you'd have seen the teacher clearly stood by her decision based on christianity of all the stupid things you could


very puzzling
about 9 years

angelic says

who the hell said his parents pushed a sexuality on him

my god

people need to stop being obsessed with others affairs that aren't hurting anyone else. maybe katy wants to be addressed as a boy now. maybe katy will have a change of heart later. maybe the child is bigendered. who knows. let the kid decide for himself and do what makes him happy


You think the parents had NO influence on this 6 year old calling themselves a boy?
about 9 years
and no one said the tescher saw the child as a girl and called him a girl. he outright refused to call child by preferred gender
deletedabout 9 years
I'm pretty sure if not 100%, that this girl/boy/sentient blob/it/they/xir/xim has any significant clue as to who they want to be
about 9 years

Stragger says

Teacher thought girl looked like girl

called said girl a girl

somehow defamed as transphobic in lieu of a 6 year old without a developed brain who cannot make decisions themselves


??


if you watched the vid you'd have seen the teacher clearly stood by her decision based on christianity of all the stupid things you could
about 9 years
6 years old is 1st grade, right? Well, I dunno. Seems kinda young to me. But, then again, when I was in 1st grade, I knew I liked girls. So, maybe it's possible? It would be best to ask someone who is transgender as to when they first realized who they really were.
about 9 years
everyone's gonna assume the parents said "hey you're a boy now make sure you tell everyone to call you a boy or they're horrible" when really it was much more likely to be "well if you want to be called a boy it's up to you"

even if it's something silly like the kid thought that being a boy sounded cooler or tougher or something, no reason to stop them

the thing about gender exploration is that by identifying as transgender is that it's not a final decision and that's something that... everyone... bar very few... seem to forget
about 9 years
who the hell said his parents pushed a sexuality on him

my god

people need to stop being obsessed with others affairs that aren't hurting anyone else. maybe katy wants to be addressed as a boy now. maybe katy will have a change of heart later. maybe the child is bigendered. who knows. let the kid decide for himself and do what makes him happy
deletedabout 9 years
Teacher thought girl looked like girl

called said girl a girl

somehow defamed as transphobic in lieu of a 6 year old without a developed brain who cannot make decisions themselves


??
about 9 years
What if the teacher in question just thought that the student was confused because they didn't understand, think about it. When I was a little boy my females used to play dress up with me and dress me like a girl, I wasn't aware that I looked like a girl because I was too young to make that judgement. How can this 6 year old know they're a girl or a boy?
deletedabout 9 years

kiIIua says

the sexuality of their parents is irrelevant in this case, but even though i watched the video there wasnt anything suggesting that their parents were pushing masculinity onto their child.


lol
deletedabout 9 years

Kerry says


Felons says


Fam says

The teacher has no right to put a say into how the parents are raising their child. But with that being said, i dont think a 6 year old child has a firm grasp on sexuality and gender meanings, and their parents pushing on it may make them confused later on. But what do i know, i'm just a loser who plays em


Do you believe the parents more likely than not pushed the sexuality onto the girl? At the age of 6 I don't think I was self identifying either way, so do you think it is possibly a political statement?


or, being open-minded enough to do so, let their kid express themselves however they like


The fact that they are pushing the teacher to do follow along with what the kid wants to identify means the parents are being beyond open minded and are encouraging it. Its just as silly as making the teacher calling the child aquaman. Its a child they dont understand the meaning of what they are doing and comparing this to actual adults who have trouble identifying with a gender is really dumb
about 9 years

kiIIua says

its arguable that people shouldnt be pressing gender on their children in general, but thats kind of beside the point

while i dont think you should put a kid on hormones per say at age six, i think that a child exploring their gender identity should be validated.

the sexuality of their parents is irrelevant in this case, but even though i watched the video there wasnt anything suggesting that their parents were pushing masculinity onto their child.


Well, it's more focusing on the teachers being fired for calling the child a girl, in their eyes the 6 year old child is a girl. I understand self identifying, but how can you self identify as anything before you even hit puberty?

Girls usually begin to experience puberty between the ages of 8 and 12, while boys begin between the ages of 9 and 14
deletedabout 9 years
Where's the 'maybe' option
deletedabout 9 years
Pretty bad parents if you ask me
deletedabout 9 years
The real problem with this is that somehow this got on the news and lawyers are involved over a fickle matter between a grown adult and a 6 year old
deletedabout 9 years
6 year olds don't know how to make life decisions. they aren't even cognitively developed. this whole discussion is really weird
about 9 years
if this was a gay kid being forced to "act straight" by his parents then it would be wrong, correct? so in the same way i think it's wrong to force a gender on your 6 year old good lord
deletedabout 9 years
I didn't realize a 6 year old could make an educated decision on gender indentity
about 9 years
there is a very distinct difference though between a child who is identifying as trans on their own as opposed to their parents pushing gender identity onto them
about 9 years
it's very unfair to bring that article as a topic starter considering it's pretty biased heavily in the teacher's favour (pronoun choice throughout the article, positive portrayal of the teacher and her lawyer, etc

i.e. you don't really know if it's the kid's choice or the parent's choice or what the kid thinks but the article clearly doesn't care about that and only cares about inciting bigotry