betrayal, i have two people i am acquaintances with on the epicmafia.com forums are both single, one of them happens to have a help thread for fixing problems, and the other happens to be posting in that thread. what should i do if i want to hook them up?
It's the journey, not the destination. But the journey requires there to be a destination. So the selection of a destination seems kind of arbitrary, to me.
Fixing other people's perception of you is a hard thing to do unless you're Miley Cyrus. One's perception of you can only change based on your action. For example, if you get a makeover that completely changes your look, people will judge you differently. But if you are a serial killer like the Charleston shooter, it doesn't matter what you do, people will always judge you negatively.
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you are sort of single ....... i am single............ interesting
You can come up with goals. There must be something that you want out of life. Life is short and we're all gonna die one day. Are you telling me there is nothing you want to accomplish before your day comes?
What you have my friend is a warped mindset. You have a negative attitude towards life and you must learn to think more positively. Maybe, there could be a deeper root to the cause of this. You could be depressed or gone through some sort of trauma. What you must do is figure out the cause of your negative attitude towards life and find out how you can shift yourself into becoming a more positive person. This won't happen overnight, it will take baby steps, hard work, and perseverance. In my opinion, you should go to Church next Sunday and talk to Jesus.
First let me tell you that being single isn't a bad thing. There is nothing wrong with being single. Now then, if being single is really a problem then what you need to do is write a list of 10 things you will do every day from now on to not be single anymore. Maybe, you could go out more, sign up for dating sites, make an effort to meet people, and put yourself out on the market so you will no longer be single. The sooner you work on this, the sooner you will be in a relationship again.
Yes, but you are not willing to help yourself, Arcbell. I can only help you if you're willing to help yourself. You are not willing to help yourself therefore I cannot help you.
