Dude, the point of the game is to convince people to believe you. Throwing a fit and suiciding to "prove" yourself is not how to play.

Don't play if you can't handle arguments - of course some people are not going to believe you, that's the whole point of the game: get them to.

is there anything i can do to get rid of these violations

http://www.epicmafia.com/report/28057 - When your partner busses you, don't out them. They're only doing it so that they can go on to win.