So guys, this topic is going to be kind of personal. I'm at sort of a crossroads in my life and I need third-party opinions from people who are not my friends and family....
Basically, the situation is this: live in Germany, have been living here for 5 years, but am American, and was born in America. It's too long a story to explain here, so pm if you want to know more. I'm a senior in high school, going to an international school, expecting to graduate soon. I'm in the process of applying to colleges, and am almost done, but I have a simple but really difficult question to answer....where should I go to college?
The reason why this is difficult is that my family will not be returning stateside should I choose to attend uni in the U.S. They will stay in Europe, I don't know how long but it will be a few years before they return, and they are very concerned about me being an ocean away as a freshman in college. This isn't like going from east to west coast - this is two different continents we're talking about, each with their own cultures, geo-political structures and societies. They want me to attend college in Europe, but as much as I love Europe, I'm ready to go home. Money won't be an issue, so I can go anywhere I want (in the U.S.) but I'll still be alone wherever I go. So while I'm excited to return, this big gap is starting to make me doubt and question my desire to return to America. I need imput from others already in college. I'll be so far from family, but I'll have the chance to start a new life back home fresh.
So....do I go home to the U.S., or stay with my family in Europe?
EDIT: I'd also like to clarify that I'm not some rich billionaire. My family and I are part of the middle class, so while I will be able afford to attend a reasonably price college (or the average) choosing where I go will still be a big decision because I won't be always able to afford to go home (for thanksgiving or christmas etc)