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The Mods Are At It Again

about 6 years

Corrupt moderator blacksnakemoan has sent me and shounen a private message telling us not to play games with each other anymore, signing it with “your friendly mod team x”.

Besides the obvious passive aggressiveness dripping from that signature, the sanctions laid upon me and shounen are unjust and peak definition of this place being a toxic environment. It shows that even something like playing a round together with a specific person can result in suspension. It’s discriminatory and hurtful. Yes, we’ve played every round this comp together. No, we did NOT cheat. You can play a game with the same people and not cheat, you know. It’s called having friends. Not to forget, we were on opposite teams a lot of the time, and I’m not even in the top 28 anymore. Why are we being accused of something like this? We did nothing wrong.

Now's your chance to voice your opinion in the form of a poll. Is mod blacksnakemoan corrupt?
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YES
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NO
about 6 years
the gay community is often v homophobic within itself like bottom shaming and "no fems" is rampant and guys don't realize that by doing it they're honestly just hurting their community but then i think they dont actually see non-masc guys as the same as them?
about 6 years

shounen says

i think it also doesnt help that im especially flamboyant and this is a masc4masc world


lol fcuk i dont really like flamboyant dudes either im not super masc though i kinda just act normal
about 6 years

Jeff says



tysm lacey i'm so excited to read it!!!!


WTF lookbook

your eyes doe
about 6 years


tysm lacey i'm so excited to read it!!!!
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idk where im going with this. derailing my own bait thread with legitimate discussion instead is actually so fun
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i think it also doesnt help that im especially flamboyant and this is a masc4masc world
about 6 years

shounen says

i just have a hard time meeting other gays that arent borderline hypersexual


that problem is exacerbated by you being a teenager, who are all hypersexual lol
about 6 years

Jeff says

like I want to adopt kids and have a family and these people just wanna frolic around having sex with no real commitment and I’m just like well whatever I guess I’m forced ?


probs not gonna happen til we are like 28 minimum, my goal was to be married by 23 lol
about 6 years

lacey says


firecape says

ME: I dont like sex
SONSERAY: literally why does anyone care about playing mafia or having any hobbies, you could be having sex like me


highly innacruate

anyone: *literally anything. doesn't matter what it is or what it's about. any comment.*
sonseray: haha yeah that's great but at least you didn't have sex with a girl only to have her rip your heart out by cheating on you until you're no longer interested in any form of human interaction with anyone of the opposite gender!


lol i dont think ive read a post about this development but i believe that he would bring it up in random situations
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Jeff says

add that to the fact that I live in Utah and every gay guy has his mormon plans of eventually getting over being gay and marrying a woman so....


thats actually really awful. i live in a very progressive and urban area so ive never had to deal with stuff like this. not to mention my parents arent conservative either so coming out to them wasnt the worst thing ever. of course they thought me being a little gay boy f*ggot was a phase but its whatever now. i just have a hard time meeting other gays that arent borderline hypersexual
about 6 years

Jeff says

the hookup phase is honestly tiring and you can only make out with so many random people you have 0 feelings for before the fun is completely lost


yeha i agree
about 6 years
like I want to adopt kids and have a family and these people just wanna frolic around having sex with no real commitment and I’m just like well whatever I guess I’m forced ?
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firecape says

ME: I dont like sex
SONSERAY: literally why does anyone care about playing mafia or having any hobbies, you could be having sex like me


highly innacruate

anyone: *literally anything. doesn't matter what it is or what it's about. any comment.*
sonseray: haha yeah that's great but at least you didn't have sex with a girl only to have her rip your heart out by cheating on you until you're no longer interested in any form of human interaction with anyone of the opposite gender!
about 6 years
ME: I dont like sex
SONSERAY: literally why does anyone care about playing mafia or having any hobbies, you could be having sex like me
about 6 years
the hookup phase is honestly tiring and you can only make out with so many random people you have 0 feelings for before the fun is completely lost
about 6 years
i think there are very few fish in the pool who want to think long term who are in their 20s
about 6 years

Jeff says

yeah gay culture is really sexual which is sad because like yes I do hook up a lot I would prefer an actual relationship over sex every time but it’s.not what most guys want. add that to the fact that I live in Utah and every gay guy has his mormon plans of eventually getting over being gay and marrying a woman so....


yeah i dont blame you, it happens, i had relationship that i thought was serious at a time and then a hook up phase for liek 8 months
about 6 years

lacey says

shocked you complained so much about being called sonseray 2 pages ago


lol i think me and him have very different viewpoints on it
about 6 years
yeha lol gay people have efficitized looking for sex to the point where the profile pictures on grinder are just butts and weenies, whereas on tinder to have sex people need to pretend that theyre interested in a relationship and have game
about 6 years
But I would prefer*
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firecape says

im only 21 but i'm pretty jaded about sex, i dont think i want to do sex anymore, had a bad experience


shocked you complained so much about being called sonseray 2 pages ago
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yeah gay culture is really sexual which is sad because like yes I do hook up a lot I would prefer an actual relationship over sex every time but it’s.not what most guys want. add that to the fact that I live in Utah and every gay guy has his mormon plans of eventually getting over being gay and marrying a woman so....
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ive always noticed all most gay guys care about is sex too. its interesting really studying both gay men and gay women and how our fight against loneliness and other negative feelings that come with being gay is so different
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the gay lifestyle definitely isnt the greatest
about 6 years
im only 21 but i'm pretty jaded about sex, i dont think i want to do sex anymore, had a bad experience