Saying that all mods don't give violations to their friends or aren't impartial is flat out untrue.
When I moderate things I try to be lenient and take into account all sides of an argument, including practicing empathy for the person being reported. I am probably one of, if not the most lenient person that is modded.
That being said, I am aware that not every situation is black and white, I am aware that I make mistakes or that other people might disagree with my opinions and I'm fine with that.
I've had some of my verdicts overturned by other moderators, and despite that being done I still respect them, their opinions, and the opinions of others despite not necessarily changing my own.
Not every single report is easily handled and often times there are lengthy discussions in the mod chat with multiple people deciding how things should be handled.
We aren't out to get anyone in particular, we don't try to give people violations for no reason, and honestly, I'm just trying to make the site better because I care about it and enjoy spending my time on it.
As for your PM
I literally already answered your question in one of the MANY other complaint threads that you've made. I read the game, I wrote out my opinion, I was insulted for doing so, then idk what came after that. Also note, I didn't even handle the original report, I only came in to add another opinion.