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The State of Sandbox

over 7 years

For years, this lobby has been stagnant, it has been declining in activity, and it has quickly been losing interest for those of us who have been here for a couple of years. The ownership of the lobby being passed around like a game of hot potato to me was unacceptable and therefore I decided to create a plan to change the lobby and make it a better and safer experience for those of us here. I was made aware that I was the heir to the throne long ago and ever since then, I began to work on some of these ideas. I have been observing the lobby for years and participating when necessary so that I could bring you, the people, the necessary changes that you need.

To begin,

I did not intend to rule alone or with just the moderators I choose, I was not interested in a clique ruling the lobby like we are going to have with an owner like Merlot and like we had with Bebop. This secretive clique may be great for those who Merlot and Bebop are looking out for (themselves, other site moderators), but it is not good for the people. I intended to rule with transparency -- true transparency. I wanted the people of Sandbox to help make decisions and I intended to start up open forums to hear what you had to say on issues such as what the role of the lobby moderator should be since they do not do much (I will talk about this more later on in this thread) and if the moderators and I could not come to a decision about what to do with controversial issues like certain users posting content in the lobby chat, then we'd create an open forum allowing the people to have their say on the issue.

The role of the moderators would drastically change, making them more useful within the lobby as I have seen many people say that moderators just aren't needed in Sandbox, here are the descriptions of the roles that I created with the help of some of my friends which were set to be included in the moderator applications yesterday before the lobby was stolen from me:

Position: Forum Moderator Description: The forum moderator is the peace keeper of the forums. Their responsibilities include sticking the most relevant threads to the lobby wall, moving topics to their appropriate location, judging and enforcing rules violations in forums, and creating topics of interest. You should apply if: You are a very active user. You enjoy reading TheLastProphet’s and MeetTerry’s posts. You are organized.

Position: Games Moderator Description: The Games Moderator will have several responsibilities all of which include keeping the community having fun. The Games mod will be in charge of choosing the stickied setups, hosting setups and introducing new ones, hosting forum games or alternative games outside of sandbox or promoting games others are hosting. You should apply if: You are a very active user. You are creative. You are a good host. You enjoy the mafia based aspect of this mafia simulator site.

Position: Enforcer Moderator Description: The Enforcer Moderator will be the strong arm of the law. They must enforce the rules and will make no leeway for personal relationships. While all mods enforce the rules, the Enforcer Mod will be the primary mod to handle violations, give out punishment, police the lobby wall and lobby chat, and serve anyone who feels their experience in sandbox is being affected by other users. You should apply if: You are a very active user. You consider yourself tempered and level-headed. You are neither an SJW nor a racist. You’re not going to go on a banning spree.

Position: Community Moderator Description: The Community Mod will come up with the lobby announcements. They can keep the community up to date with events users are hosting such as: plugdj, discord, jackbox and movie nights. They will also lead design based aspects of sandbox including choosing the lobby banner, the lobby background, and the lobby polls. You should apply if: You are a very active user. You don’t need to be an artist but should have artistic taste. You communicate well with others and are up to date on social happenings.

We would put great empashize on having more community-orientented games like Dooze's Sandbox Assassin and Amelio's Sandbox Big Brother, SupBros' large games, or Plissken's unique events. We would create a fun lobby where we constantly have events being run and promote these events well rather than leaving the lobby stagnant as I talked about earlier and just having the same setup being hosted every single day.

I had great interest in running a lobby with an enforced set of rules, yet lenient when it needs to be. I had great interest I running the lobby with a policy in which everyone can play in Sandbox, but those who constantly interfere with the functioning of the lobby will be barred from playing here, a fair chance policy. This policy would also state that the moderators and even the owner themselves could not hold grudges and act due to that fact and this would include a fair chance when choosing moderators as well. With the fair chance policy, the moderators must live up to the rule as well and will be held to the highest of standards. In the event we had a moderator abusing their powers like error did, they would be removed from their position because of their interference with the functioning of the lobby. The main rules I believe need to be enforced are those that protect the people from legitimately feeling unsafe within the lobby. The people doxing users, threatening to reveal someone's personal information, and effectively chasing out our active userbase should not be allowed in this lobby -- and Bebop & friends are no stranger to doing this.

http://i.imgur.com/EmBybqe.png Bebop on who he thought the next Sandbox owner would be

http://i.imgur.com/XCsxx5M.png As we know, Bebop and his friends are no strangers to doxing users and threatening to reveal their personal information, this whatever it takes attitude is very telling.

http://i.imgur.com/pIHybZb.png He is not interested in working with the two moderators that have actually been beneficial to this lobby in recent memory. We can easily assume the hivemind believes the same.

I applied to be a moderator of this lobby under other owners in the past and have included my desire to be apart of a team with conflicting opinions in the application, and I have that same wish today and I wish to have people argue against me during these open forum discussions and I wish for people to play devil's advocate and I want to come to the best decisions possible as a result of this. I think it is crucial that everyone feels as though they can speak their true mind instead of feeling like they'll be punished for saying something the owner disagrees with like the moderators felt during Bebop's reign. I may not always make the best executive decision, but if someone can win a debate about something I did, then I think it is very telling that I made the wrong decision because if I was right, I should be able to defend myself and my decision. When Bebop made the many poor decisions he made during his reigns and the community argued against him, he resorted to arguing using jokes and memes to avoid having to actually argue and defend his decision -- this was one of the things I could not stand to do as owner as it is cowardly and it is not for the good of the people.

I was not interested in being pushed around by the site moderators (this is why they removed me, they knew I would not bow down to them) because these same site moderators are the same people that do nothing and in fact, support the doxing, threatening, and chasing away of our people from Sandbox. We needed someone to stand up to these people and I do believe we still need that. No one should fear for their safety on a mafia simulator site, this site should be to have fun, but it is most definitely not fun to have your personal information taken from you and it is not fun to be threatened with it.

I was the owner of this lobby and I was going to make it a great environment for all of us, but the fact is that it wasn't stolen from me -- it was stolen from all of you. During Bebop's reign, I was very much against the shady things Bebop & his friends were doing and fought to expose them and I did so, these people are not looking out for anyone but themselves and those who are in their hivemind. Edark removed me from the owner position because of many things including me openly stating that I do not feel as though he is fit to be an administrator ad he knew he could not control me or intimidate me. Edark did not come to me to ask me what my plans were or what my stance on any controversial issues were like that of the hateful comments rule that he asked baaabaa about when she was the interm owner -- he just removed me. Now the lobby is under the control of someone who has supported doxing users, threatening to reveal their personal information, and then chasing these same users out of the lobby out of fear -- and I just do not find this acceptable. If the people do not believe me to be the right fit to become owner once more, then I am formally giving my support to lobby moderator Dooze as I know she will implement these ideas and many others in order to protect all of you from people like Bebop, Edark, and friends.

Thank you, Jamal Marley

over 7 years

Edark says


MrMongrel says


Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So what do people do if they're unhappy with the ownership as it stands?


They can voice their concerns to [email protected] or PM and admin what they are unhappy about.

But we tend to avoid meddling with ownership as much as we can, its not supposed to be passed around like it was.


I don't think helping the community pick an owner that they find helpful is meddling, I think thats taking a preventative measure to avoid issues like this in the future.

What I'm wondering now is what options, if any, exist to help sandbox choose an owner they think is beneficial, and if there aren't any options, can we come up with a solution, or do we just have to "Deal with it"?
over 7 years

collokey says


Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So this is a punishment, basically, is what you're saying.

"You children couldn't handle the responsibility and follow the rules, so we're going to do it for you, and if you're unhappy, tough sh*t." ?

Also -- "As far as Im aware" -- so you aren't sure they didn't follow the rules? But you still stepped in and did something as if they broke the rules?


You act like I didnt ask them what they were up to. They could have just told me what their plans were instead of blocking me on skype.

http://pastebin.com/4cW63eBk
over 7 years

JamalMarley says


Edark says

So lie all you want, Jamal wasnt planned as far as I was concerned nor was his position permanent.


"Jamal, if you’re there
its time
I’m ready
if you’re here, you will be the next owner of sandbox by the end of the night
I might have to give it to something temporarily
I need to get rid of it now" - Fred


FRED. IS. NOT. LUCID. FRED. CANNOT. DO. WHATEVER. FRED. WANTS. AND. BAABAA. CANNOT. DO. WHATEVER. BAABAA. WANTS. REGARDLESS. OF. WHAT. FRED. OR. BAABAA. WANT. TO. DO.
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it wasn't being passed around willy nilly, it was stated that baabaa was temporary and it was intended to go to jamal
over 7 years

JamalMarley says


Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So to stop the passing of ownership of the lobby, you decide to take the lobby from someone who had no intention of passing the lobby to anyone else for the foreseeable future?


tbh what edark is saying makes sense here.

What I'm wondering now is what options, if any, exist to help sandbox choose an owner they think is beneficial, and if there aren't any options, can we come up with a solution, or do we just have to "Deal with it"?
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Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So this is a punishment, basically, is what you're saying.

"You children couldn't handle the responsibility and follow the rules, so we're going to do it for you, and if you're unhappy, tough sh*t." ?

Also -- "As far as Im aware" -- so you aren't sure they didn't follow the rules? But you still stepped in and did something as if they broke the rules?
deletedover 7 years
hi edark (:
over 7 years

BaneofMafia says


Edark says


BaneofMafia says

@Edark but she did pass to JamalMarley. As Fred wished as well and a lot of people here evidently do.

Edark, can you or any site moderators, answer why sandbox ownership was taken from a sandbox player and given to a site mod?


No they didnt. They literally said it got out of hand.


What got out of hand? Jamal wasn't owner for more than a few hours.

Did you not simply change ownership from someone you disliked to someone you liked?


Edark, basically, the majority of sandbox is not pleased with Merlot as owner, and we would like it changed to someone else. Could you kindly discuss this with Lucid, and maybe come to a better conclusion? Gracias.
over 7 years

Edark says

So lie all you want, Jamal wasnt planned as far as I was concerned nor was his position permanent.


"Jamal, if you’re there
its time
I’m ready
if you’re here, you will be the next owner of sandbox by the end of the night
I might have to give it to something temporarily
I need to get rid of it now" - Fred

http://prnt.sc/e96k3m
over 7 years
we mod elections now
deletedover 7 years
it doesn't matter though he didn't do anything wrong when he was owner and that doesn't mean you should just take control and give it to a site mod

sandbox should have a say in who the owner is and clearly the overwhelming majority wants dooze
over 7 years

MrMongrel says


Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So what do people do if they're unhappy with the ownership as it stands?


They can voice their concerns to [email protected] or PM and admin what they are unhappy about.

But we tend to avoid meddling with ownership as much as we can, its not supposed to be passed around like it was.
deletedover 7 years

Edark says


BaneofMafia says

@Edark but she did pass to JamalMarley. As Fred wished as well and a lot of people here evidently do.

Edark, can you or any site moderators, answer why sandbox ownership was taken from a sandbox player and given to a site mod?


No they didnt. They literally said it got out of hand.


What got out of hand? Jamal wasn't owner for more than a few hours.

Did you not simply change ownership from someone you disliked to someone you liked?
over 7 years

Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So to stop the passing of ownership of the lobby, you decide to take the lobby from someone who had no intention of passing the lobby to anyone else for the foreseeable future?
over 7 years
So lie all you want, Jamal wasnt planned as far as I was concerned nor was his position permanent.
over 7 years

Jimbei says


rockgirlnikki says

NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. I AM SAYING YOU WERE KICKED BECAUSE LUCID DID NOT SELECT YOU. JESUS.


https://epicmafia.com/topic/82919

Anyone lucid has picked were from emails or admins messaging him.

His judgement is on emails and what his admins says. He is not a part of the community himself.


Ok, but Jamal was never picked by Lucid even if he e-mail Lucid at one point or another. Baabaa got ownership (for some weird reason), and then handed it to Jamal all on Baabaa's own.
over 7 years

Edark says

[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.


So what do people do if they're unhappy with the ownership as it stands?
over 7 years
[2017-02-14 15:43:40] Fredian Slip: These owner changes have gotten a little out of hand, will I be able to get it back after the business with eris is done?
[2017-02-14 16:02:06] Emil Bagge: Idk, depends on Winnie

Once I've had to step in since you guys thought you can just pass ownership around as you please without any consequences.

Normal procedure involves PM'ing lucid as this is not a custom lobby and they cant just do what they please. As far as Im aware, Fred nor baabaa did this when they gave ownership to Jamal.
over 7 years
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. F*ck.
deletedover 7 years
edark u didn't say hi to me back ),:
deletedover 7 years

rockgirlnikki says

NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. I AM SAYING YOU WERE KICKED BECAUSE LUCID DID NOT SELECT YOU. JESUS.


https://epicmafia.com/topic/82919

Anyone lucid has picked were from emails or admins messaging him.

His judgement is on emails and what his admins says. He is not a part of the community himself.
over 7 years

rockgirlnikki says

NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. I AM SAYING YOU WERE KICKED BECAUSE LUCID DID NOT SELECT YOU. JESUS.


But that still isn't true.

I was removed by Edark because he did not want me to be the owner of Sandbox, this is coming from Bebop.
over 7 years

Edark says


BaneofMafia says

@Edark but she did pass to JamalMarley. As Fred wished as well and a lot of people here evidently do.

Edark, can you or any site moderators, answer why sandbox ownership was taken from a sandbox player and given to a site mod?


No they didnt. They literally said it got out of hand.


tbh all of this is kindof out of hand imo
over 7 years

BaneofMafia says

@Edark but she did pass to JamalMarley. As Fred wished as well and a lot of people here evidently do.

Edark, can you or any site moderators, answer why sandbox ownership was taken from a sandbox player and given to a site mod?


No they didnt. They literally said it got out of hand.
deletedover 7 years

rockgirlnikki says

NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. NOT LUCID. I AM SAYING YOU WERE KICKED BECAUSE LUCID DID NOT SELECT YOU. JESUS.


lol since when does lucid care half the time anyway