Any of you guys had positive experiences from online dating? theres this girl ive been chatting to for a while and she seems nice but im scared tbh. The last girl i met from online dating, who i really liked, basically used me for sex and never spoke to me again :(
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alright bud ive had enough with this, if you feel strong enough about ashley then you should know how stupid that comment was
glow is just saying that things can be hard in a lot of different ldr and to paint them all as good isnt true. so to anyone wondering if they should be in a ldr, just make sure the person is worth it, that's all
edit: this is not complicated, if you think you can make it work, go for it. love isn't black and white. Just be aware that things can get pretty tough at times depending on your situation
its also better to play mafia while ur sitting next to the person. if youre frustrated over a game, just ask for a quickie or to have them bring you a drink. i dont get up from the computer for hours when i'm playing maf
understood, i am guilty of not entirely considering your situation and my comment was insensitive. ashley's whole post in the first place was to show that its easy to make it work if you have the ability to make it work. If you don't have the ability to meet them often now, you surely will in the next few years so don't give up on it.
also, saying that you shouldn't get into a ldr until you're sure you can visit them is easier said than done and honestly ignorant. you get into a relationship with someone because you love them, not because of convenience.
im saying everyones experience with ldr is very different and not everyone can visit as often as you can, so recommending ldr or saying it's not hard isn't accurate.
basically waht shes saying is, she cant figure out if someone just wants to cheat for a trophy or wants true love which is a stupid question to even pose. everyone wants a trophy
ive found that dating on em is a bad idea cuz before you know it you're cheating in mafia with them nonstop. its not long before you realize you're just being used to help them get trophies. you dont know what its like to find out the person who u love is pretending to like u so you wouldnt out them as an epicmafia cheater
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point being. if you know you're not gonna be able to visit someone as much as you'd like due to your own circumstances- why does that make a different couple a "special circumstance" just because their circumstances aren't as harsh. you chose to get into a LDR at a young age knowing that you wouldn't be able to visit him much because of your age and who you live with. we chose to get in one at our age where we can travel at our own expense and not particularly need permission.
