Any of you guys had positive experiences from online dating? theres this girl ive been chatting to for a while and she seems nice but im scared tbh. The last girl i met from online dating, who i really liked, basically used me for sex and never spoke to me again :(
PSA: LDR'S SUCK GUYS. THEY'RE HARD AS BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BE WITH THE PERSON AS MUCH AS YOU CAN BUT YOU CAN'T. AND UNLESS YOU REALLY TRULY CARE ABOUT THE PERSON-- DONT GET INTO AN LDR. DON'T DO IT UNLESS YOU TRUST THEM. LOVE THEM. AND WANT TO ACTUALLY BE WITH THEM. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME.
(the whole post was good but i wanted to highlight this) don't waste your time. don't waste their time. if you care about them and realize that you can't do long distance, don't put yourself and your s/o through that garbage of a time
I just wanna say I never said it was easy. NOR DID I SAY "HEY GO GET IN AN LDR BC THEY FREAKING ROCK AND ARE SO FREAKING EASY" because they're not. Also who the frick said we didn't make any sacrifices?? you love someone. we get that. you're allowed to love WHOEVER THE YOU WANNA LOVE.
But what I am saying is don't get into a LDR if you're not able to make that work. If you're not gonna be able to see them as often as you personally need to- then it's not for you
I am terribly sorry that you haven't seen them more than 1 day. And I hope that you get to see them for longer period of time.
Also I get what you're saying. You don't get in a relationship for conveniences. Yeah yeah, you do it for love. We all do it for love. But don't complain that someone is "luckier" because they're older and have seen someone more. Like really? You're comparing yourself to another couple for what? What is it doing for you. NOT A DAMN THING
PSA: LDR'S SUCK GUYS. THEY'RE HARD AS BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BE WITH THE PERSON AS MUCH AS YOU CAN BUT YOU CAN'T. AND UNLESS YOU REALLY TRULY CARE ABOUT THE PERSON-- DONT GET INTO AN LDR. DON'T DO IT UNLESS YOU TRUST THEM. LOVE THEM. AND WANT TO ACTUALLY BE WITH THEM. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME.
her original post said "[LDRs] definitely suck in general" and when i replied by saying that maybe you should be in one then, you all got offended and had your whole friend group come in here and post lol
glow is just saying that things can be hard in a lot of different ldr and to paint them all as good isnt true. so to anyone wondering if they should be in a ldr, just make sure the person is worth it, that's all
so her whole point of posting was to complain about her LDR, while arguing that its good for her?