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Larger framed women need to stop

deletedabout 10 years

bullying girls with smaller frames, and less voluptuous figures as if they're unattractive/anorexic. I just heard a sad and degrading song that I can't quite figure out if it's a public joke or not. Why are we publicly deemed "skinny B!TCHES" if we're naturally smaller than a size 6? Horrified that i'm considered a Bit** for not being overweight =/ It's not a 'positive message' that if you have small breasts (like me) and "don't got that jelly" men won't find you sexually appealing...

Togepi
about 10 years

QRich says

I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.

I always made sure she had strong emotional reactions to me..I liked to make her blush. I once made a game of holding her hand "on accident" just to gauge how negative her response was.

It was superficially negative at best. That said no matter how hard I tried I wasn't ever going to cross a certain threshold and I think she was well content to just let me give up but she was amused by my persistence for sure.


You sound like a rapist.
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years
Talking to QRich:


I'm out.
QRich
about 10 years

EmmerrLouise says

I'm not that familiar with 'brocode', but I'm fairly certain 'not hitting on another guy's girlfriend' is pretty high up there.




He wasn't my bro.

I didn't know the guy.
QRich
about 10 years

Togepi says


QRich says


Togepi says

Well for starters you're black.


It's cute how obsessed you are with me.

Almost as cute as that cute face of yours. I should tell you to smile more maybe you won't come off as so angry. :)


I'm obsessed with you being I know you're black?


No, silly. :)
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years
I'm not that familiar with 'brocode', but I'm fairly certain 'not hitting on another guy's girlfriend' is pretty high up there.
Satan
about 10 years

QRich says

I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.



sociopath
/ˈsəʊsɪəˌpæθ/
noun
1. Someone whose social behavior is extremely abnormal. Sociopaths are interested only in their personal needs and desires, without concern for the effects of their behavior on others.
QRich
about 10 years

EmmerrLouise says

So now you resent anyone who is overweight? Seems legit.


What?

I talk to overweight people all the time, including females. I just don't date them.

It's okay though I don't need to date fat chicks. There's no obligation for me to do so.
QRich
about 10 years
I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.

I always made sure she had strong emotional reactions to me..I liked to make her blush. I once made a game of holding her hand "on accident" just to gauge how negative her response was.

It was superficially negative at best. That said no matter how hard I tried I wasn't ever going to cross a certain threshold and I think she was well content to just let me give up but she was amused by my persistence for sure.
Togepi
about 10 years
Maybe his dad was overweight.
Satan
about 10 years

QRich says

To be fair I used to be suffer from childhood obesity. I got tired of being teased so I made efforts to control my eating and I grew into a nice, healthy frame.





for anyone who remembers that movie
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years
So now you resent anyone who is overweight? Seems legit.
Togepi
about 10 years

QRich says


Togepi says

Well for starters you're black.


It's cute how obsessed you are with me.

Almost as cute as that cute face of yours. I should tell you to smile more maybe you won't come off as so angry. :)


I'm obsessed with you being I know you're black?
QRich
about 10 years
To be fair I used to be suffer from childhood obesity. I got tired of being teased so I made efforts to control my eating and I grew into a nice, healthy frame.

I'm about 155 pounds today and I weighed 130 at age 12.


So if you think I'm just being insensitive out of some sort of privilege you are sadly mistaken.
Satan
about 10 years

QRich says



I haven't found anything better than the last chick I was into it. I was making small progress but I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.



please don't ever reproduce (not that you'd get the chance)

http://www.vhemt.org/
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years

QRich says

I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years


.

Betrayal
about 10 years
The TLDR of this thread

deletedabout 10 years

Mirasical says

Your posts imply being fat isn't a choice, which it clearly is


You can't choose to be skinny or fat. You cannot will yourself to be skinny or fat. You cannot say "after I do x for y many days I will be skinny".

You can choose to take actions that can help you lose or gain body fat. The point is that those action MAY OR MAY NOT RESULT in body fat loss/gain.

My earlier posts explain that someone's actions are often driven by underlying biological mechanisms instead of simply one's desires and one's failures to abstain from those desires.

For* many people the above restrictions and forced "will power" does work for a little while. But the general model is backwards.

"Eat less, exercise more" simply addresses and attempts to control the symptoms when overweight/obese people should actually be addressing the biological mechanism driving their overeating.
QRich
about 10 years

EmmerrLouise says


QRich says


EmmerrLouise says

Implying you're worthy of "the best", whatever the hell THAT is.


I am.

Why would I not be?


Why should you be, I think, is a more pertinent question. Why should you deserve "the best"? Why do you expect it?

What is the best?


Whatever I like the most at the time.

I don't see any reason not to try.

I haven't found anything better than the last chick I was into it. I was making small progress but I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.

Understandable if not disappointing....but I'll find something better eventually. 300 million people, etc.
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years
No, no the last 9 pages can be tl;dr as such:


QRich says

All small women are twigs. All large women are cows. I cannot think of other variants of insult because my vocabulary is substantially limited, but I expect all of womankind to want me (even the twigs and cows should desire my thimble). PS, an eating disorder is healthy if they're eating good food. Damn those cake-eaters to hell - all fat people are fat cause they want to be. Just stop eating you fatties.

QRich
about 10 years

Togepi says

Well for starters you're black.


It's cute how obsessed you are with me.

Almost as cute as that cute face of yours. I should tell you to smile more maybe you won't come off as so angry. :)
Betrayal
about 10 years

Togepi says


Betrayal says


Togepi says

Well for starters you're black.


once you go back u never go back, aint that right togepi


It doesn't count if you're black because I skip all over.


togepi likes her men white and nerdy
Togepi
about 10 years

Betrayal says


Togepi says

Well for starters you're black.


once you go back u never go back, aint that right togepi


It doesn't count if you're black because I skip all over.
QRich
about 10 years

EmmerrLouise says

QRich I invite you to stop posting 'cause you keep getting slam-dunked by logic and human decency.


What are you talking about..

No one has said anything of substance for pages.

Last 4 pages in a nutshell

"Being fat isn't fat people's fault...working out isn't healthy...will power means nothing."

Then a bunch of people going

"Ohohoh look at this guy and his standards, I bet he's a real hit with the ladies hur hur hurr"


As if NOT finding a chick who isn't a size 14 or a size 4 with A cup is some impossible task.

It may be America but we do have some variation.
Betrayal
about 10 years

Togepi says

Well for starters you're black.


once you go black u never go back, aint that right togepi
Togepi
about 10 years
Well for starters you're black.