bullying girls with smaller frames, and less voluptuous figures as if they're unattractive/anorexic. I just heard a sad and degrading song that I can't quite figure out if it's a public joke or not. Why are we publicly deemed "skinny B!TCHES" if we're naturally smaller than a size 6? Horrified that i'm considered a Bit** for not being overweight =/ It's not a 'positive message' that if you have small breasts (like me) and "don't got that jelly" men won't find you sexually appealing...
sociopath /ˈsəʊsɪəˌpæθ/ noun 1. Someone whose social behavior is extremely abnormal. Sociopaths are interested only in their personal needs and desires, without concern for the effects of their behavior on others.
I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.
I always made sure she had strong emotional reactions to me..I liked to make her blush. I once made a game of holding her hand "on accident" just to gauge how negative her response was.
It was superficially negative at best. That said no matter how hard I tried I wasn't ever going to cross a certain threshold and I think she was well content to just let me give up but she was amused by my persistence for sure.
To be fair I used to be suffer from childhood obesity. I got tired of being teased so I made efforts to control my eating and I grew into a nice, healthy frame.
I'm about 155 pounds today and I weighed 130 at age 12.
So if you think I'm just being insensitive out of some sort of privilege you are sadly mistaken.
You can't choose to be skinny or fat. You cannot will yourself to be skinny or fat. You cannot say "after I do x for y many days I will be skinny".
You can choose to take actions that can help you lose or gain body fat. The point is that those action MAY OR MAY NOT RESULT in body fat loss/gain.
My earlier posts explain that someone's actions are often driven by underlying biological mechanisms instead of simply one's desires and one's failures to abstain from those desires.
For* many people the above restrictions and forced "will power" does work for a little while. But the general model is backwards.
"Eat less, exercise more" simply addresses and attempts to control the symptoms when overweight/obese people should actually be addressing the biological mechanism driving their overeating.
I haven't found anything better than the last chick I was into it. I was making small progress but I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.
Understandable if not disappointing....but I'll find something better eventually. 300 million people, etc.
