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Larger framed women need to stop

deletedabout 10 years

bullying girls with smaller frames, and less voluptuous figures as if they're unattractive/anorexic. I just heard a sad and degrading song that I can't quite figure out if it's a public joke or not. Why are we publicly deemed "skinny B!TCHES" if we're naturally smaller than a size 6? Horrified that i'm considered a Bit** for not being overweight =/ It's not a 'positive message' that if you have small breasts (like me) and "don't got that jelly" men won't find you sexually appealing...

EmmerrLouise
about 10 years
I fos QRich.
deletedabout 10 years

EmmerrLouise says

Things we've learnt today:

- QRich doesn't discriminate between large or small girls - he doesn't like either.
- He will assault you under false pretences to touch your hand as a measure of your affection for him.
- If you look directly into his eyes, he can control your mind and force you to love him.
- He doesn't know when to stop.
- He's probably killed a woman.


o_o
juneau
about 10 years
it is not okay to be fat in this day and age. dont use some dumb excuse like "it's a glandular problem" because it's not a glandular problem when you're eating 50 reese cups every day. get off your and exercise. being fat is not beautiful nor is it healthy. it's your body and you can do whatever you want with it but if you're overweight you're going to end up getting either a stroke or a heart attack. i hate fat people.
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years
Things we've learnt today:

- QRich doesn't discriminate between large or small girls - he doesn't like either.
- He will assault you under false pretences to touch your hand as a measure of your affection for him.
- If you look directly into his eyes, he can control your mind and force you to love him.
- He doesn't know when to stop.
- He's probably killed a woman.
QRich
about 10 years

EmmerrLouise says


QRich says

If I was unempathetic I would've hated her or tried to harm her in some way(mentally, emotionally, even physically).



I don't think trying to force her to love you using amateur psychological mind tricks and leave her pre-existing stable relationship for you was, in any way, the empathetic course of action there.

Why did you need to resort to mind control?



I didn't.

I was simply trying to exacerbate some of the energies I saw. Basically...if I see doing action A results in result B..I keep doing it and mixing it up until I get to result Z, which would be me getting with her.

If she had given me nothing to work with I wouldn't have even bothered. And trust me, quite a few will give you nothing to work with when they have zero interest.

It was very obvious she enjoyed interacting with me. I just couldn't play my cards well enough...but I don't blame myself. I just wasn't good enough.
Satan
about 10 years

QRich says


ariel244 says

i'm honestly so disturbed. QRich you sound like a serial killer, i swear to god


Well that's an amusing extreme. EleGiggle

Where did you get that idea from...besides your own, reactionary imagination?



QRich says

I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.

I always made sure she had strong emotional reactions to me..I liked to make her blush. I once made a game of holding her hand "on accident" just to gauge how negative her response was.

It was superficially negative at best. That said no matter how hard I tried I wasn't ever going to cross a certain threshold and I think she was well content to just let me give up but she was amused by my persistence for sure.

deletedabout 10 years
QRich says
I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.
QRich says
I wanted to see if she would be happier with me.

Lmfaoooo :itg: man this seems SO familiar
QRich
about 10 years

ariel244 says

i'm honestly so disturbed. QRich you sound like a serial killer, i swear to god


Well that's an amusing extreme. EleGiggle

Where did you get that idea from...besides your own, reactionary imagination?
EmmerrLouise
about 10 years

QRich says

If I was unempathetic I would've hated her or tried to harm her in some way(mentally, emotionally, even physically).



I don't think trying to force her to love you using amateur psychological mind tricks and leave her pre-existing stable relationship for you was, in any way, the empathetic course of action there.

Why did you need to resort to mind control?
QRich
about 10 years

carolineeee says

I'm not reading the whole forum but people can decide if they wanna lose weight or not, yeah genetics plays a role in it, but the person chooses to eat what they want.


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Lana ignored the analogy I made about weightlifting and suggested that it wasn't healthy.

Controlling your eating and exercising is difficult, it requires commitment and willpower no doubt. The problem is apologists wallow in their own self-pity so much they tell themselves it's okay to be the way they are because it's too hard and thus not their fault or responsibility. With this admission of defeat they start looking for people to accept them as they are and being irrationally angry about any dissent.

I sort of empathize with Kelly a bit because she's never going to spontaneously gain a rack like a fat chick can lose weight, so "skinny shaming" to me seems a lot more nonsensical than the latter.

Also IIRC Kelly isn't even that thin, she has an attractive build.
ArieI
about 10 years
i'm honestly so disturbed. QRich you sound like a serial killer, i swear to god
Satan
about 10 years

QRich says

I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.



QRich says

I wanted to see if she would be happier with me.


deletedabout 10 years
What the fk did this thread turn into lmao
QRich
about 10 years

Empire says


QRich says

my extreme empathy



QRich says

I was making small progress but I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.



QRich says

As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.





I wanted to see if she would be happier with me.

She wasn't.

Im okay with that.

If I was unempathetic I would've hated her or tried to harm her in some way(mentally, emotionally, even physically).

Don't make such rash judgments without consulting logic.
deletedabout 10 years
I'm not reading the whole forum but people can decide if they wanna lose weight or not, yeah genetics plays a role in it, but the person chooses to eat what they want.
deletedabout 10 years

QRich says

my extreme empathy



QRich says

I was making small progress but I couldn't get her to leave her boyfriend of 2 years.



QRich says

As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.

QRich
about 10 years

carolineeee says

You can't choose to be skinny or fat???? What that is wrong lol


Thanks caro. :)
deletedabout 10 years
You can't choose to be skinny or fat???? What that is wrong lol
QRich
about 10 years
Forgiveness is such an important part of life, my extreme empathy makes me hurt a bit on the inside knowing that you have such a struggle with it. I understand these things from the culture that we come from but you need to rise above the hate and accept your true feelings hon.
QRich
about 10 years
Jocelyn I understand your obsession and I understand why you still harbor so much negativity over a year now...you are afraid of letting that connection go and letting it fester into something positive because you think I'll hurt you..

I never meant to hurt you Jocelyn. I was just immature. I have learned from my mistakes.
deletedabout 10 years

lolwot says

You can't choose to be skinny or fat. You cannot will yourself to be skinny or fat. You cannot say "after I do x for y many days I will be skinny".







false lolwRONG
Togepi
about 10 years
I still hate you and your self-hating so you can take that heart and shove it into a grocery bag along with the rest of your hopes and dreams.
QRich
about 10 years
Togepi I just want to know I forgive you. <3
Satan
about 10 years

Togepi says


QRich says

I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.

I always made sure she had strong emotional reactions to me..I liked to make her blush. I once made a game of holding her hand "on accident" just to gauge how negative her response was.

It was superficially negative at best. That said no matter how hard I tried I wasn't ever going to cross a certain threshold and I think she was well content to just let me give up but she was amused by my persistence for sure.


You sound like a rapist.

QRich
about 10 years

Togepi says


QRich says

I think she liked me a bit. As a budding psychologist I am learning it's quite powerful when you can control people's emotions a bit.

I always made sure she had strong emotional reactions to me..I liked to make her blush. I once made a game of holding her hand "on accident" just to gauge how negative her response was.

It was superficially negative at best. That said no matter how hard I tried I wasn't ever going to cross a certain threshold and I think she was well content to just let me give up but she was amused by my persistence for sure.


You sound like a rapist.


I know what stop means.