i mean im not saying its not possible, but it would be pretty stupid of me to get my hopes up, since even if there were like-minded people i would never talk to them, i cant initiate a conversation to save my life and nobody wants to initiate conversations with me
i dunno, im just not going to delude myself and say its gonna happen, because odds are it wont
I actually made all of the friends I have right now in classes that I had in the past. If you ever figure out your major in the next few months, try and take some classes with the same people or if you notice some of the same people in multiple classes then that could be a good way to meet similarly-minded people!
i found the beginning of uni to be the hardest time to meet people because i'm super introverted and wasn't good at opening up and speaking and stuff. It was probably my second or third semester after a couple of group assignments with the same people that i began to develop great friendships
they said i'd meet new people and make friends, guaranteed
and... nothing's changed. i still dont have friends. now people aren't even obligated to pretend to be like they were in high school and i can truly be alone.
sure, maybe things will change in the future, but... the beginning of college is supposed to be the easiest time to meet people and i already failed that
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you're so young jack!!!! the most eye opening years of personal development for me came when i left high school and all the constants in my life such as my home town and the bubble that we all existed in. you have so many more years to find yourself, and find people you connect with on a real level, and who connect with you on a real level! don't lose hope, and don't be discouraged, the world is so big and full of so many different things, you just haven't found your niche yet.
been playing a lot of gtav and this song pops up a lot and i just think its funny
its sad i bought a motorcycle club in gta to run missions but i cant do half the missions without another player so i have to wait for the solo ones to come up zzz
and what little confidence i had was shattered by being constantly inferior to him even though he's cool and one of the few people im still friends with
