if u think about it, caring for and loving others takes energy. A! LOT! OF! ENERGY! and i think making sure i’m investing my time and energy into the things i love, and others who also care and love me, has improved my happiness immensely. because why waste the time doing things i don’t like?? the energy caring for people who don’t care about me?
for a while, i was really closed off and was super nervous to actually open up or talk to others. there’s so many different instances where i would invest my energy and trust into people and, well, things change! i think of the amazing friendships i have and the lifelong friends i’ve made here, and i realized it’s 100% worth the risk to put yourself out there and to acknowledge others and to not be afraid of potential hurt. because the ones who also spend their time and energy caring and loving you will be there for you. and if i do get hurt, at least i spent the energy on someone i cared about.
anyways, that's all folks!! xoxo cams
hi also i had to repost bc i forgot about the dang censor whoopsies
this is just something that was on my mind anna said i should post and so i figured i would share!
i think something i’ve really focused on for a bit now, is to just be happy about the things and people i love and focus less on being petty and… lame. i try to make it a point to worry less about those who don’t care about me. i think for a while i enjoyed the gossip, and getting involved in things or situations that entirely weren’t my business. because when you feel sh*tty, it feels really good to be sh*tty. but i’ve learned, why waste the energy to complain or poke fun of other people or whatever the heck when i can focus on the things and people i love?
if something or someone upsets me, i’ve found myself just talking to my friends about it in a healthy way instead of popping off, and it’s made me so much happier. because the truth is, even if someone says something i don’t necessarily agree with or ticks me off, being a sh*t about it doesn’t make me feel any better. and making someone feel bad doesn’t make me feel any better. so why not just be better?
if u think about it, caring for and loving others takes energy. A! LOT! OF! ENERGY! and i think making sure i’m investing my time and energy into the things i love, and others who also care and love me, has improved my happiness immensely. because why waste the time doing things i don’t like?? the energy caring for people who don’t care about me?
for a while, i was really closed off and was super nervous to actually open up or talk to others. there’s so many different instances where i would invest my energy and trust into people and, well, things change! i think of the amazing friendships i have and the lifelong friends i’ve made here, and i realized it’s 100% worth the risk to put yourself out there and to acknowledge others and to not be afraid of potential hurt. because the ones who also spend their time and energy caring and loving you will be there for you. and if i do get hurt, at least i spent the energy on someone i cared about.
this is just something that was on my mind and anna said i should post so i figured i would share!
i think something i’ve really focused on for a bit now, is to just be happy about the things and people i love and focus less on being petty and… lame. i try to make it a point to worry less about those who don’t care about me. i think for a while i enjoyed the gossip, and getting involved in things or situations that entirely weren’t my business. because when you feel , it feels really good to be . but i’ve learned, why waste the energy to complain or poke fun of other people or whatever the heck when i can focus on the things and people i love?
if something or someone upsets me, i’ve found myself just talking to my friends about it in a healthy way instead of popping off, and it’s made me so much happier. because the truth is, even if someone says something i don’t necessarily agree with or ticks me off, being a about it doesn’t make me feel any better. and making someone feel bad doesn’t make me feel any better. so why not just be better?
anna and i both got chickfila and ate it together on facetime... now i’m getting chocolate chip cookies and we’re discussing the best spots. best friend goals
cammy - Today at 4:27 PM his mother is dying jp jpdete - Today at 4:27 PM oh no cammy - Today at 4:28 PM she is tired bc she traveled for a year while pregnant omg wait she's sleeping false alarm i thought they meant that she was like jpdete - Today at 4:28 PM wtf dont do that cammy - Today at 4:28 PM finding a place to REST forever like die but she's actually just sleeping
