if an attractive guy who's a stranger approaches me and tells me that i'm beautiful, it brightens my day. if it's some guy i don't know who's short, chubby, or balding who comes up to me randomly and compliments me, it just creeps me out; i just want him to go away
and i know that i'm not alone in feeling this way. i can guarantee you that 90% of the other EM girls share my sentiment.
so yeah, if you're unattractive and a guy, try to learn to pick up on social cues, please