I have been seeing two girls for the past month. One is of the Indian decent, and the other one is a classic white girl.
I met them both on tinder and within a few days starting doing the dirty with them. I have received texts from both of them today that they have both missed their periods and think they are prego.
I did not use protection due to being lazy. I did finish inside them every time as well.
Man up and have a conversation with her. Don't avoid it like a coward. Ultimately it's the woman's decision to give birth or not but you also need to take ownership. Have a conversation and ask her to get tested to see if the child is truly yours. If the child is yours, have a serious conversation with her on what to do next. If she is okay with abortion, then support her with that decision. If she wants to give birth to the child, then you have to accept some degree of responsibility. If the child is not yours, move on. If you feel legal needs to be involved because she doesn't want to get tested, lying or seems to be framing you, then engage legal. Bottom Line: Don't avoid it and run away or give excuses.
tell them you got a vasectomy years ago so you're not the dad. if you're lukcy they're hoes and will just call the other guys and it's their problem now