"nice" could mean i don't dislike them as a person, but they're not for me. this is when someone says something like "why didn't i invite Brad to the party? ...uh, he's nice and all, but he's not really my style..." when "nice" is used this way it just means, "i want to emphasize i don't hate them as an individual. they seem pleasant and like they have good intentions. however, they're not someone i'd choose to be friends with." if you find out you've been called "nice" in this way there isn't any deeper meaning to it or any feedback you can use. it's a generic positive adjective being used to qualify a point
plus most people who are naturally jerks will probably end up treating you the same way no matter how much special treatment you get in between, because its easy for them to treat people they don't even know like horse crap lol
true, but then again, being nice is also important because it makes less sense for someone who is naturally a bit of a jerk to be loyal as compared to someone who's really nice. although most of the people who have been fake had this artificial niceness which is easy to figure out after you've went through enough losers for friends
the fact is most people don't place a huge amount of value on above-and-beyond niceness. it's not that they disregard niceness completely. it's just that the majority of humans are pretty nice. being fairly nice is a bare minimum social expectation. once someone meets that standard, additional niceness isn't given a ton of weight. when they're choosing who to be friends with, people place more importance on other factors like having similar interests and values, sharing the same sense of humor, whether they have fun together, etc. if a "nice" person does something for them they'll still take it and enjoy it in the moment, but it's not going to really sway their overall opinion on whether they're desirable as a friend
i remember playing with carly and even in the most frustrating games, she would go out of her way to not swear or be rude to anyone. she is the most innocent person i will ever meet lol
it's really sad because i honestly can't think of any other innocent soul left on epicmafia who maintained themselves better than melody, bearguru is semi innocent but the testosterone will cause him to become scum like all men as usual
