Nah, not at all because I am the opposite of that. I just don't hold my tongue when people verbally come for me, lie about something that they've done, or when they do something stupid and not expect any sort of backlash.
So it's really odd that I'm seen as aggressive, but what are you going to do.
I'm pretty sure the current IC tightening that Ali implemented before she stepped down was because Lucid contacted her and it needed to be done. As far as the IC rule, when I was admin saying c*** was a no-fly zone and something that a few mods at the time argued with me about. I see it as a word that is demeaning when directed toward women (which is correct and I won't change my mind on that), but they were arguing that it's different for different countries/cultures and I'm like ehhhh I get and understand that. Now is the current mod team actually united on implementing it? Probably not because they were when I was admin, weren't when I was mod and Empire and Laila rewrote the guidelines, and weren't before I left.
As far as mod abuse, mod abuse is more on the level of "hey I'm mad at this person right now and they got a report so I'm going to draw up the forces without telling the mods directly what's going on to get them a vio or banned." Not every mod/admin does that but it happens more than anyone wants to admit.
lmao I got outed for cheating for a gold trophy - did he honestly think that outing me for cheating in one red heart game was going to upset me? I thought it was hilarious that he was mad enough to do that though.