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Larger framed women need to stop

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bullying girls with smaller frames, and less voluptuous figures as if they're unattractive/anorexic. I just heard a sad and degrading song that I can't quite figure out if it's a public joke or not. Why are we publicly deemed "skinny B!TCHES" if we're naturally smaller than a size 6? Horrified that i'm considered a Bit** for not being overweight =/ It's not a 'positive message' that if you have small breasts (like me) and "don't got that jelly" men won't find you sexually appealing...

EmmerrLouise
over 10 years

uneasy says

then what the *** is it? i'm confused right now, i'm pretty sure that people eat too much and then gain weight. which makes it their fault. because they can control how much they eat


Not always. Some medications can cause weight gain, as well as some contraceptives, over-active glands (usually thyroid) or we're just big boned eh. ;)
QRich
over 10 years

ariel244 says

QRich i get that you have a "type" but just because that's your type doesnt mean every woman is obligated to fit your type in order to be beautiful. personally im pretty glad i dont fit your type because you seem to be a misogynistic prick but w/e


I'm misogynistic? I love women and vice-versa. Most of my associates are females.

This topic was about objective attractiveness. Obviously we are holding this to a higher standard of excellence. If you just want to get a guy to pay attention to you, any idiot can do that without needing a support group to boost their self-esteem.

If we are talking about objectiveness here. Skinny twigs are much more preferable to cows, but neither are preferred over a girl with a nice, curvy build. The Tyra Banks style model look has been the rave for a long time now.

Sometimes people just get consumed by their inadequacies they want to rewrite the book you can't do that. Deal with it.
Clarkeboi
over 10 years

Gypsy says


Edark says

kelly would NEVER attack someone weight

thats such an awfull thing to do :^)


don't think i've ever actually legit done this before unless it's catherine. but she knows im kidding and love her. it's like how i'm not a racist but sometimes certain words slip out


it's true. :)
Edark
over 10 years

Clarkeboi says


Edark says

kelly would NEVER attack someone weight

thats such an awfull thing to do :^)


fk off queer


wow this is not a very nice thing to say
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Edark says

kelly would NEVER attack someone weight

thats such an awfull thing to do :^)


don't think i've ever actually legit done this before unless it's catherine. but she knows im kidding and love her. it's like how i'm not a racist but sometimes certain words slip out
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did lolwot just say that overweight people don't get overweight from eating too much?

then what the *** is it? i'm confused right now, i'm pretty sure that people eat too much and then gain weight. which makes it their fault. because they can control how much they eat
Clarkeboi
over 10 years

Edark says

kelly would NEVER attack someone weight

thats such an awfull thing to do :^)


fk off queer
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QRich how are you going to go around talking about "averages" when the black community has the highest obesity rates in the US.

Seriously now.

We get it you have a specific body builder chick fetish. But that body type is not the average, it is not the norm across the globe, it is a very tiny percentage of the populus. Expecting all girls to look like this, and saying that ALL MEN ONLY LOOK FOR THIS KIND OF GIRL



is pure ***
Edark
over 10 years
kelly would NEVER attack someone weight

thats such an awfull thing to do :^)
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lolwot says


Gypsy says


EmmerrLouise says



Here's a wild idea - let's bash neither. 'Small' girls and 'large' girls can all be beautiful and desirable.


best post in the thread tbh


Says the girl who constantly attacks me about my weight :^)


excuse me?
ArieI
over 10 years

QRich says


Black females that don't overeat simply have better body shapes on average.


simply have body shapes that i personally prefer on average*

ftfy
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QRich says

Black females that don't overeat simply have better body shapes on average.




So now you're saying that it's fat people's faults that they're overweight because they can't control the amount of food they eat and don't exercise enough??

lol

Please open a science textbook. Educate yourself.
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Uneasy as a man you can't possibly think you have the right to lecture women about feeling pressured to look a certain way. Can you??
QRich
over 10 years

lolwot says


QRich says

Being black helps carrying weight..


Wrong. Being tall helps.

The girl in the top pictures is 5'0 while the girl in the bottom picture is 5'10. Both wear a size 12.

Being black has nothnig to do with it.

White girls, black girls, asian girls, whatever girls come in all shapes and sizes.

Just because you're black doesn't give you an inherent hour glass figure. Just because you're white doesn't give you an inherent apple figure.

Your ignorance about this is alarming.


It's called averages.

Black females that don't overeat simply have better body shapes on average.

Some of the bodyshapes are almost impossible for white women. Especially the and legs
EmmerrLouise
over 10 years

KillHimNotMe says

Agreed completely emmer - but let's take it one step farther. Even if you are NOT desirable to most men, that's fine. Your self-worth should be exactly that - generated by the SELF. It shouldn't matter what some drunk idiot frat boy thinks. His perversions have no bearing on your worth as a person.


Quite, and I agree completely. But my post, I thought, wasn't suggesting that beauty+desirability was subjective from the point of others? In short, you can find yourself beautiful and desirable without the approval of others, but that doesn't mean others should be able to be size-ist (if that's a thing?) or generally cruel about another's looks. :)
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Gypsy says


EmmerrLouise says



Here's a wild idea - let's bash neither. 'Small' girls and 'large' girls can all be beautiful and desirable.


best post in the thread tbh


Says the girl who constantly attacks me about my weight :^)
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Well said Ariel. How arrogant is it to assume that everyone else should be measured against your own personal preferences?? Honestly I mostly just pity people who still think like QRich. They will have a tough time feeling comfortable in the more-equitable society we are building. Soon he'll be like the crazy old dudes who hate inter-racial marriage. The world has passed him by, but he's too dumb to understand why, or to adspt
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this is too much tumblr for me.

everyone go back home and get many kinds of acceptance from tumblr, they like everybody. drama free unless you intentionally try to start arguments, i guarantee it

epicmafia is for games.
QRich
over 10 years
Shes also tiny.

Most women are taller than her.

If she was 5'6 or so she probably would be an 8 or 10.
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EmmerrLouise says



Here's a wild idea - let's bash neither. 'Small' girls and 'large' girls can all be beautiful and desirable.


best post in the thread tbh
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QRich says

Being black helps carrying weight..


Wrong. Being tall helps.

The girl in the top pictures is 5'0 while the girl in the bottom picture is 5'10. Both wear a size 12.

Being black has nothnig to do with it.

White girls, black girls, asian girls, whatever girls come in all shapes and sizes.

Just because you're black doesn't give you an inherent hour glass figure. Just because you're white doesn't give you an inherent apple figure.

Your ignorance about this is alarming.
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Agreed completely emmer - but let's take it one step farther. Even if you are NOT desirable to most men, that's fine. Your self-worth should be exactly that - generated by the SELF. It shouldn't matter what some drunk idiot frat boy thinks. His perversions have no bearing on your worth as a person.
ArieI
over 10 years
QRich i get that you have a "type" but just because that's your type doesnt mean every woman is obligated to fit your type in order to be beautiful. personally im pretty glad i dont fit your type because you seem to be a misogynistic prick but w/e
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This chickis a size 6 not a size 12



QRich
over 10 years

lolwot says


lolwot says


QRich says

You need genetics to pull off anything around a size 12 though.

They are the hottest chicks by far but there's not very many..

Especially not white girls.

Being black helps carrying weight...a lot


This is laughable. You realize the number you wear has no bearing your body composition?




Size 12


Size 12





Being black helps carrying weight..