First off I don't think what she said in game is enough to warrant a HC violation, as it wasn't particularly severe. Secondly, I'm going to reiterate what Nathan said on Atikur's report on you, to please try and stay away from each other. It is really not that hard and I can't see an outcome where you guys continue to interact negatively and don't start accruing violations.
in the game i reported him for, he referenced a thread saying c*nt and f*ggot were not HC. also, i only said it once rather than him calling me names several times~!!