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Friend or Foe

Arcbell
almost 8 years

Let's play a game called friend or foe. Post in the thread to find out if I like you or dislike you.

Because I'm a sneaky snake, I reserve the right to put people in the friend section even if I secretly hate them.

however,

At the end of the timer, I will reveal the number of people I cheated and put in the friend category.

There will also be a third catagory for "I don't know who you are."

Arcbell likes you: poser, Dag, Venus, ark, JeffreyAaron, LadyNemesis, Nathan, sweetnkind, coolkidrox123, Loser, Bebop, Cody, thecolonel, peach, Muscar, Lono, Recidivism, Merlot, Rooo

Arcbell does not like you: projectmatt, yoyo200900, Poa, xJuicy, Escurai, Dyl, Shrub, BSelser

Arcbell doesn't know you: PatrykSzczescie, Tartosis, TitorJhon, Miguel, Kitt, Shwartz99

LISTINGS ARE NOW CLOSED: I HAVE LIED ABOUT 4 PEOPLE WHOM I SAID I LIKE. U MUST GUESS ALL 4

Arcbell
almost 8 years

Cody says

it's a waste of my brain's cycles to think about her so that's just me optimizing my time


Sonseray is doing the thing where he just processes it over and over again until the entire string of events just becomes a single cluster of neurons that all fire together in a predictable way.
glow
almost 8 years

Cody says

source: been on both sides of that lul


?
Nathan
almost 8 years
PAMDA JUST SUCK
deletedalmost 8 years
Yeah but the first girl I loved killed herself and it was already extremely hard for me to let myself care about someone like that again and she knew about it and still went out of her way to make me fall for her, and then she cheated on me.

It seems really malicious to me and I can't understand it. I'd kind of rather characterize it as malicious because I'm finding it really difficult to stop caring about her.
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PEOPLE JUST SUCK
Cody
almost 8 years
it's a waste of my brain's cycles to think about her so that's just me optimizing my time
Cody
almost 8 years
idk i'm just blabbering maybe i'm being too sympathetic with her for cheating but if i got cheated on like that i'd try to find a way to forgive her and move on so that i can become indifferent quicker and not hate her for too long
Arcbell
almost 8 years
Sonser I think she just isn't at a place in her life where she's ready to make the kind of connection you were and she knew it so she just let herself pretend to love you even though the feelings she had were real they weren't "love" even though she probably told herself it was. It's just people trying to do what makes them feel good and in her case it was 2 men at once and the human brain is miraculously good at generating justifications for the actions we're driven to take.
Cody
almost 8 years

Recidivism says


Cody says

you were the most immediate source of satisfaction to her and she latched on to it

then she threw it away when the initial high went away


She didn't throw it away, I did. She was planning on spending the night the literal day after I found out and dumped her. She cheated on me, didn't expect me to find out, and then tried to apologize like it was something forgivable.

I don't understand and I don't think I ever could.


if you think about it from her point of view for a second, she's just pursuing whatever is the easiest source of pleasure for her in the moment, which at the very least gives you some closure in that she maybe wasn't actively trying to hurt you
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Recidivism says


Arcbell says

If I were sonseray's favorite woman, I wouldn't cheat on him.


There are lots of girls who would never have dreamed of cheating on me if I had picked them!

Girls I don't even want to give a chance now because I feel so bitter and jaded.

I just don't get it. I didn't need her or expect her in my life, she wedged her way in and then betrayed me.

Why go out of your way to be a part of someone's life just to ruin them?


it gets easier with time. :/
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Cody says

you were the most immediate source of satisfaction to her and she latched on to it

then she threw it away when the initial high went away


She didn't throw it away, I did. She was planning on spending the night the literal day after I found out and dumped her. She cheated on me, didn't expect me to find out, and then tried to apologize like it was something forgivable.

I don't understand and I don't think I ever could.
Cody
almost 8 years
i don't really hate you though i'm just indifferent

which in a way is worse than hating you but oh well
Cody
almost 8 years
you were the most immediate source of satisfaction to her and she latched on to it

then she threw it away when the initial high went away
Arcbell
almost 8 years

Cody says

but u r a snake...


I may be a snake but I am not a cheater.
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Arcbell says

If I were sonseray's favorite woman, I wouldn't cheat on him.


There are lots of girls who would never have dreamed of cheating on me if I had picked them!

Girls I don't even want to give a chance now because I feel so bitter and jaded.

I just don't get it. I didn't need her or expect her in my life, she wedged her way in and then betrayed me.

Why go out of your way to be a part of someone's life just to ruin them?
Arcbell
almost 8 years
Ya ur right Cody. It's like how u tell me u don't really hate me because I tell u i like u :(
Cody
almost 8 years
but u r a snake...
Arcbell
almost 8 years
If I were sonseray's favorite woman, I wouldn't cheat on him.
Cody
almost 8 years
source: been on both sides of that lul
Cody
almost 8 years
it's easier to just "reciprocate" the love that someone else has for you than to actually be honest with them. less effort to tell someone what they want to hear than to worry about how they're going to react to the truth
moon
almost 8 years

Recidivism says

I'm glad my two favorite epicmafia women are around to participate in the sonseray show and plus karma my posts after this shocking turn of events in the plot


who, me and arcbell?
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moon says


Recidivism says


moon says


Recidivism says


moon says

sad to hear that sonse, people are terrible and such is life


I'll never love again, I'm going to be a meninist until it corrupts my being and makes me vote for Trump and watch nascar.


men are just as bad, just get a lil dog that will never cheat on u and always love u


I would never tell someone how much I love them and then do that to them, wouldn't even consider it. Had plenty of chances. It's an evil thing to do, and I can't even understand the motivation. If you just want to have sex with someone, just tell them that. Don't lie about how in love you are, I mean right?!


some people just think of themselves first always and not the other person. i've been there it sucks and i guess you'll find your own way to rationalize it eventually and move on


I think I'm just going to hate everyone forever. That sure sounds like how I'd handle something like this to me.
Cody
almost 8 years
i was considering it but i didn't really want to start making tables
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I'm glad my two favorite epicmafia women are around to participate in the sonseray show and plus karma my posts after this shocking turn of events in the plot
moon
almost 8 years

Recidivism says


moon says


Recidivism says


moon says

sad to hear that sonse, people are terrible and such is life


I'll never love again, I'm going to be a meninist until it corrupts my being and makes me vote for Trump and watch nascar.


men are just as bad, just get a lil dog that will never cheat on u and always love u


I would never tell someone how much I love them and then do that to them, wouldn't even consider it. Had plenty of chances. It's an evil thing to do, and I can't even understand the motivation. If you just want to have sex with someone, just tell them that. Don't lie about how in love you are, I mean right?!


some people just think of themselves first always and not the other person. i've been there it sucks and i guess you'll find your own way to rationalize it eventually and move on