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Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is typically the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners.[1] [2]It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".[3][4][5] However, the meaning of polyamory is also an issue of ongoing debate.[4] For example, although polyamory is typically defined as a relationship practice or approach to relationships,[1][2][6] some believe that it should also be considered an orientation or identity (analogous to sexual orientation or gender identity).[7][8]

Polyamory is sometimes used in a broader sense, as an umbrella term that covers various forms of consensual multi-partner relationships, or forms of consensual non-exclusive sexual and/or romantic relationships. Polyamorous arrangements are varied,[9] reflecting the choices and philosophies of the individuals involved, but they tend to emphasize certain themes or values, such as love, intimacy, honesty, integrity, equality, communication, and commitment.[4][2] As of July 2009, it was estimated that more than 500,000 polyamorous relationships existed in the United States.[10]

People who identify as polyamorous typically reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are necessary for deep, committed, long-term loving relationships.[6] Those who are open to, or emotionally suited for, polyamory may embark on a polyamorous relationship when single or already in a monogamous or open relationship.

Sign if Chihirios should get more gfs
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current gfs: 3
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dontcha know allowing relationships between several consenting adults is gonna lead to fcking animals and hellfire :/
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me


vs u

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Polyamorous people?
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i just want to be able to fastforward 20 years for the pro-polygamy/sin ppl compared to traditionalist monogamists
see who has a happier, healthier, fuller life

i know who does
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CoryInConstantinople says

yeah enjoy ur std's ill enjoy my monogamy and the fact that my bf doesn't fk random sl*ts

:'''')


and im not reading the bible, im reading the lives of orthodox saints thank u very MUCH


my other two partners have never had sex with anyone but myself and each other we are 100% std free but nice try
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yeah enjoy ur std's ill enjoy my monogamy and the fact that my bf doesn't fk random sl*ts

:'''')


and im not reading the bible, im reading the lives of orthodox saints thank u very MUCH
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CoryInConstantinople says

a k a i wanna have sex with more people because i am victim to the societal disease of selfish empty meaningless cosmopolitan lifestyles


one of my partners is ace and we've never done anything remotely sexual tho
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straw man so poor not even a horse would eat it
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we're all bigots here by definition
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CoryInConstantinople says

"if i'm happy doing heroin and meth, then what's the big deal? i'm living my own life and finding my own happiness!"




how exactly is polyamory interfering with other people's lives?


CoryInConstantinople says

a k a i wanna have sex with more people because i am victim to the societal disease of selfish empty meaningless cosmopolitan lifestyles


a k a i have a terrible sex life so i project my problems on people who are happy by calling them selfish and empty... Go read the bible Miss Celibate
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Cory being a bigot as usual
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"if i'm happy doing heroin and meth, then what's the big deal? i'm living my own life and finding my own happiness!"
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if someone is happy and no one is getting hurt what's the big deal. Everyone is living their own life their own way and finding their own happiness differently from everybody else
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a k a i wanna have sex with more people because i am victim to the societal disease of selfish empty meaningless cosmopolitan lifestyles
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in my personal experience polyamory comes much more naturally than monogamy. i've been in both forms of relationships and in a monogamous one I was 100% needing something different

and yeah polyandry/gyny are like, different. they're all forms of non-monogamy but yknow
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I do not think this is a sexual orientation, e.g. it is not innate (I do not feel a particular yearning to be in a relationship with either one or multiple people cha. Does any polyamorous person feel like this? Just wondering) and monogamy/polygamy are just societal conventions.

To be polyamory seems like such a non-threatening form of love I am not sure why anyone could oppose it.

I must say that I am neutral to polyandry/polygyny but I feel very strong about it being discussed separately. A partner having multiple spouses vs multiple spouses all being in love with each other seem so intrinsically different.
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The terms primary (or primary relationship(s)) and secondary (or secondary relationship(s)) may be used to indicate a hierarchy of different relationships or the place of each relationship in a person's life. Thus, a person may refer to a live-in partner as their primary partner, and a lover whom they only see once a week as their secondary partner, in order to differentiate to the listener who is whom. While such labels can be used as a tool to manage multiple relationships, some[who?] believe that such a hierarchy is unfair, as all the involved partners deserve equal standing and consideration. Another model, sometimes referred to as an intimate network, includes relationships that are of varying significance to the people involved, but are not explicitly labeled as "primary" or "secondary". Within this model, a hierarchy may be fluid and vague, or nonexistent.[citation needed]
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The word polyamorous came to prominence in an article by Morning Glory Zell-Ravenheart, "A Bouquet of Lovers", published in May 1990 in Green Egg Magazine, where it appeared as "poly-amorous".[11] In May 1992, Jennifer L. Wesp created the Usenet newsgroup alt.polyamory,[12] and the Oxford English Dictionary cites the proposal to create that group as the first verified appearance of the word.[11] The words "polyamory, -ous, and -ist" were added to the OED in 2006.[13] In 1999, Zell-Ravenheart was asked by the editor of the OED to provide a definition of the term, and had provided it as The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved.[14] Polyamory is a less specific term than polygamy, the practice or condition of having more than one spouse.

No single definition of "polyamory" has universal acceptance. Although many individuals would define polyamory as a relationship practice or form, some believe that it should be classified an orientation or identity (like sexual orientation or gender identity).[7] Most definitions of polyamory center on the concepts provided by Ravenheart's definition.[citation needed] Areas of difference arise regarding the degree of commitment, such as in the practice of casual sexual activities, and whether it represents a viewpoint or a relational status quo (whether a person without current partners can be considered "polyamorous").[citation needed] Polyamorous relationships can be open in which the committed partners agree to permit romantic or sexual relationships with other people, or closed, in which the participants do not engage in relationships outside of the defined set of committed partners. The practices of engaging in closed polyamorous relationships is sometimes called polyfidelity.
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current gfs now: 4
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tfw baking my monogamous bf banana bread barefoot in the kitchen

:'''')
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Can confirm, am Chihi's gf, living the high life
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I have more gfs than you
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these ppl are deeply mentally disturbed and will never have a healthy marriage/lifestyle/children