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empathyover 9 years ago

This is the empathy thread hello everyone

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empathyover 9 years ago
That's okay too, because ignorance is bliss
cubover 9 years ago
you only think you aren't hurting anyone
empathyover 9 years ago
That's okay, because if I'm not hurting anyone then I can be content with myself and don't particularly care what others think of me (:
cubover 9 years ago
youre a bad person
empathyover 9 years ago
:doge:
cubover 9 years ago
to preach empathy is to impose morality onto others in the belief that you have the one true answer to the question of good
cubover 9 years ago
au contraire, religion teaches tolerance and to put the infidels to death is mercy because allowing them to continue living will ultimately subject them to an eternity of suffering in the afterlife

here, you are being taught to minimize harm. isn't that exactly what you want
empathyover 9 years ago
Teaching someone not to hurt others isn't comparable to teaching a religion to someone. Like, they're different :doge:
cubover 9 years ago
why is it a good thing to do? don't religious zealots think that preaching the one true god and welcoming people into the gates of heaven think they're only doing what benefits you, and to stone the gays is to show them mercy in the eyes of allah?

i think you're forcing your morality onto others no different from those you would consider bad for doing the same with an opposing morality
empathyover 9 years ago
I don't understand what you mean by binding them to faith tbh

And you aren't teaching empathy outright, you're teaching someone why it's important to consider how others are affected before acting. I guess you could call that indoctrination if you wanted but? It's still a good thing to do
deleteddeletedover 9 years ago
love love!
cubover 9 years ago
also to say intent is circumstantial is to imply that there can be a case where good intent makes you a bad person just on the basis of outcome

so a well-meaning individual can be a bad person without even trying
cubover 9 years ago
so you're holding someone without empathy to a higher standard by binding them to faith

how is teaching empathy to someone who doesn't have empathy any different from indoctrination
empathyover 9 years ago
Someone who is incapable of empathy can still be educated on what hurts others, even if it doesn't come naturally to them to understand others feelings. If they are educated and still hurt others, they are bad. If they are never educated in the first place, that's more of a failing on society's part. Whether outcome or intent matters more really depends on the circumstances.
cubover 9 years ago
if someone is incapable of empathy and don't think what they're doing is bad, how does that make them a bad person? or are you saying outcome is more important than intent, in which case you can "accidentally" be a bad person even if you're trying to do good?
empathyover 9 years ago
cub
empathy
Yeah I'm completely understanding of the fact that some people have low empathy levels and that doesn't make them bad people
then what makes someone a bad person
Someone is only a bad person when they do things that harm others or put others in harms way. Whether someone has the capacity for empathy is irrelevant to their goodness levels I think
cubover 9 years ago
empathy
Yeah I'm completely understanding of the fact that some people have low empathy levels and that doesn't make them bad people
then what makes someone a bad person
empathyover 9 years ago
I went to my old highschool today and said hi to all my favorite teachers and it was nice

arianna
u are super sweet
Thank u!!!
deleteddeletedover 9 years ago
u are super sweet
empathyover 9 years ago
You guys are sweet <3

In other news, A Series of Unfortunate Events is a good show 10/10 so far
destaover 9 years ago
i love you empathy
deleteddeletedover 9 years agoedited
benis

EDIT: <3
deleteddeletedover 9 years ago
i love you empathy
empathyover 9 years ago
I am home from my surgery thing and it went very well hello everyone!
xtalover 9 years ago
nice :)

i honestly wonder what it's like to be born with empathy and not have to learn it